The grip of beautyA Story by AbbyI often fantasize about destroying my cosmetics. How I'd throw my foundation bottles to the floor and watch as the glass smashes and releases the beige fluid that would have once covered my skin bespatter. It would not have power over me anymore. I’d rip apart my mascara brush. The black coating my hands, my arms, my face. It’d go everywhere and it wouldn’t matter. It wouldn’t matter. I’d crush my lipstick in my hands. The red would look like the blood from the body that I had so desperately been trying to fix. Blood was always purer than what I covered my face with every morning. The blush, the powder, the concealer, all of it would be broken way beyond repair. Unfixable. I’d treat them like they had treated me. It's not a sick revenge fantasy. I'm not angry at society. More disappointed in myself. Disappointed for mistreating my body. Disappointed for calling it ‘ugly’ in passing conversation, like the very body, the very skin, I had been given meant nothing to me. Disappointed that instead of treating the marks on my face like part of nature, I treated them like imperfections that could only be treated with expensive creams. I never stopped to think that the only real treatment was confidence.
It took me a long time to realize that the girls, the ones with flawless skin and perfect hair behind makeup counters were never my friends. To them, I was just another girl who could be tricked into thinking she could be fixed by spending money on some eyeshadow. If they really were my friends then they’d smile at me with their whitened teeth and tell me I was beautiful as I was, not offer to paint my face for a discount. It’s not their fault. They, just like me, have become slaves. Slaves to the idea that we lose our beauty as we grow. Let me ask you this. Do flowers lose their beauty as they grow? Or as they grow, do they become more beautiful? You don’t see people painting over every lily to make it look like a rose, so why is it the same with us? Why do we paint ourselves to fit an ideal that can’t be achieved? Why can’t we just let ourselves bloom? We all know who’s responsible. There’s a reason cosmetic brands sponsor the news. How we’re shown scenes of dead bodies and war then get beautiful women shoved in our faces during a commercial break. Because those who gain from our insecurity want us to think that “the world is ending around us, but a least I can be beautiful whilst it’s crumbling”. But I can’t change. I’m in too deep. I can’t leave. I’m trapped. And tomorrow morning, like every morning since I was 10, i’ll put on makeup and hope that when I look in the mirror I’ll finally see beauty. As will millions of other girls and women. I just want to bloom. © 2018 Abby
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