This Is Why You Should Stop Trying

Many of us fall hard for someone who don't even give a damn about us. Many of us try so hard to bring a certain person back in our lives. Many of us struggle in pain just to keep the person we thought

Yet we are fully aware that these toxic feelings aren't going anywhere. That all of the things we tried to saved and kept are no longer serving us as a better person. And we all know that it's better for us to let it go than staying.

Yes, Loving is the most powerful thing in the world, but loving the wrong person can be the most devasting thing in your world. Being capable of loving someone with all our heart is both a blessing and a curse. Being capable of loving someone who doesn't give a f**k about what you feel is exhausting. Being able to love someone who only sees you as an accesory, a short-term, a second choice, is tormenting. These will only drag down your self esteem and feed poisonous thoughts about Love. These will only leave you feeling unworthy and not good enough for him.

Despite of all the utter heartaches you went through, i want you to know--- that it is not the Love itself that made you suffer but it is the wrong person you are choosing to fight for. Please remember, that even if you feel like being beaten up, broken in pieces, slowly dying inside, always be grateful for the gift of Love that God has given you. Claim that not everyone is going to be like you. Accept that someone like you is rare. So chin up, be proud of what you are capable of. You are indeed good enough. Hence, never forget what you truly deserve.

You have to know your worth. Know that you deserve to be more than just a fling, know that you deserve to be more than just someone's fubu. Know that you deserve more than just an option, know that you deserve a real commitment and that you deserve more than just receiving inconsistency and rejections.

You deserve love that you have given away. You deserve a 5hr late night call, you deserve quick responses, you deserve consistent goodmorning and goodnight texts, you deserve genuine "thank you's", you deserve sincere apologies, you deserve acceptance, respect, honesty, patience and above all-- you deserved to be loved and be happy.

Even if you are capable of loving so much, Do not allow yourself to be treated less than you deserve

Stop living and settling for anything less. Do not let yourself get drained emotionally, physically and mentally because of putting so much effort for someone who doesn't even ask how your day was. Do not let yourself cross an ocean for someone who couldn't cross a puddle for you. Do not invest on someone who isn't sure about you, who doesn't see a future with you. Do not let yourself holding back from moving forward because of the idea that he might change his mind and choose you, because if he does? He must have done it in the first place.

Stop. Trying. For. Someone. Who. Doesn't. Value. You.

Stop. Trying. For. Someone. Who. Always. Took. You. For. Granted.

Stop. Trying. For. Someone. Who. Makes. You. Question. Your. Worth.

Forgive him. Forgive him for he was blind to see your love, forgive him for not appreciating you when he should have. Forgive him so you can free yourself from pain and hurtful memories. Forgive him so you can let go. Letting go may be so hard for someone you really want to be a part of your life, but I want you to keep your faith and believe that this is what is supposed to be in life, to love and then to let go.

Trust me when i say someone right will come along and reciprocate all that you have done and given out to the universe. Trust me when i say someone will appreciate all the things you are capable of. Trust me when i say someone will see your soul and nurture it, someone will see the way how you love hard and that someone will never let you go. Because you are a gem and not just an ordinary stone.

I want you to stay strong keep your hopes high and believe that one day, you will be able to feel the feeling of being loved back. I want you to see and embrace your worth. I want you to believe in the magic of two people falling inlove and not settle on just a one sided set-up. Be patient. Someone will love you by how you want to be loved.

Go out. Let go. Explore and Meet new circumstances and move on. You owe yourself the love you have freely given away. Give it to your self this time, love yourself a little more, because believe me, there is nothing more fulfilling trying to become the better version of yourself than trying so hard for someone unworthy. Girl, you deserve soo much more.