Healthy Dating Tips

Yes, you read it right. All the people I've come across have mentioned their dating experience with the following : Fun, crazy, sucks, disaster......

I don't if it's fun/great- but after some days they feel like they should not date. It is not the problem with date. It's you. May be you are expecting only romance or gettin' laid. Hey will you choose that are better than these.

What if dates are remarkable, life changing, also fun yet thrilling. You can enjoy other things if it is there! Let us thrive for greater life purposes. So next time you go out with someone- try this for a variety. Also inform me how did it go :

1. Never go for caffeine / alcohol : come on! it's your date- you don't have to be conventional. Order healthy juice.
2. Say no to meat- Be vegan, order healthy yet tasty salads.
3. Start with the question - 'Tell me your story' - Usually people boasts about themselves or laments on thieir past love life. Stop bullshitting. Instead share each other's stories.
4. Listen - It's not easy as it sounds. Actually it is quite near to impossible. But the 'other' person will love this. Plus if you can look straight into their eyes- you have won the heart.
5. Choose outdoors: Skip the cinemas/ clubs : Choose fresh air with some adventure. It is scientifically proven that open places opens heart.
6. Don't pre-plan - Let the communication find its flow and pace. Let it go according to both of you. Like the Richard Linklater movies. Uncertainty has it's own magic.
7. Keenly Observe- Don't judge, but keenly observe the other. You can find funny yet great things about people.
8. Deserts- This is the only conventional dating tip I follow. Deserts are not food, they are from heaven. So always say yes.

You can try this and also send your reviews to [email protected]

LOVE

(VIN)

Author's Note

please feel free to comment.

Reviews

[Ksenia Kazantseva]

Appreciate the tips! Helpful and necessary

[serendipity]

That's innovative. Appreciate the tips

[Onlyme]

Vin, I enjoyed reading this very helpful, laid back, straight forward, to the point, friendly, fun and interesting tips on dating in these modern times, no matter your age, gender and so forthwith. Easy to read. And very practical too.

As dating folk nowadays think just go to a dating app. Catch someone's eye and you're sorted. But sadly no. Not everyone is out for a quicky in the sack. Some actually want to get to know someone properly.

[barleygirl]

There are 3 different aspects of your poem I need to address. First & most delightful is your slightly bossy & annoying lecturing-style delivery. Normally I would hate anything so presumptuous, but becuz of your frisky fun personality shining thru the "should" bullshit, I have to like this & also to like you for throwing it down. Secondly, I absolutely HATE the first two items becuz they directly contradict item #3 -- stop bullshitting. If you're not vegan, don't try to bullshit me by ordering what you usually do not order. And last but not least . . . the rest of your items are spot-on & need to be called out, which is why I can forgive you for coming off as if you're lecturing us, what you say may require a little slap upside the head along with your words, so your tone is the correct one. Plus it's written in fun & that comes thru mightily! *wink! wink!* Fondly, Margie

[Wild Rose]

Eee lad!
So that's why we are still together, we must'a got it all right
Two cyclists
We were always outside
We went away every weekend together -to Youth Hostels - separate dorms for male & female - no chance to get laid
YHA's don't allow alcohol, no TV /movies

Aye them were the days