Can we have a cup of tea so I can explain myself?

Does my sin make me a bad person?
Or are my sin and my personality two separate aspects?
If they aren't, who decides which one carries more weight when people judge me?
Does my addiction make me a bad person?
Or is it my addiction and my effort to stay away from it that truly matter?
I believe my sin and addiction are the most visible parts of me, while other, subtler but more important aspects of my personality remain hidden from public view. 

I don’t blame you for judging me based on what’s most apparent. 

But perhaps, over a cup of tea, you could see the more subtle and hidden side of me.