A love only seen by Aphrodite

What is Love and why is it that everyone longs for it... and if everyone longs for it why does it matter who you love? I breathe in judgement and breathe out love, I couldn't hate someone because they hate me  but  I can hate their mentality . The thought that you have to be a certain way to be accepted into society is obsurd, why is it that everyone is raised knowing the samething instead of having your own mind, I thought it was called free will but it feels more like mental slavery. Yet even though the slaves shun me I will never take their shackles on as my own . The world is like your feet , if every toe decided to be on the same foot then that would cause chaos , and unbalance but when you figure out that we need an equal amount on both feet then order is restored. So, why can't we all be like our toes and treat each other as "equals", because at the end of the day we are all the same toes just on a different foot.