Nooooooooooo! Please
leave me alone! She continued screaming until her
husband woke her up
and held her to calm her down. Even though
her husband persuaded her to narrate the dream she couldn’t
because of the guilt. She lied instead. Her achievements and
successes couldn’t wipe the horror of her past. Her heart
aches when she remembers, her willpower crumbles, her strength
dissolves when she sees a flash of the pain and the picture
of what happened when she was 6 years old. Michelle is a beautiful woman
in her twenties. She is a business consultant, who oversees about 25
companies. She is a great wife, sister, mother and friend
but she is an ‘emotional wreck, shadow of herself and
helpless’.
Can you share your story with
me? Asked Dr. Heels. I want to help you heal
and find your joy. She stood up and sat curled on the floor and
started her narration. I was 6 years when it
happened. My parents took my brother and me to stay
with one of our family friend for the weekend. We were left in the care of
two of their male children on Saturday as they left for groceries shopping, then he called me Michelle! And I answered
‘Sir’ and he asked me to come to his room so
that he can send me on an errand (she
started sobbing). I went and immediately the closed the
door and asked me to take off my clothes (uncontrollable
tears and Dr. Hells sat beside her on the
floor). He threatened me and said
‘if you tell anyone you will die.’ He took
advantage of me and defiled me (her shoulder dropped and felt
relived because she opened up for the
first time). Sexual molestation is the story of
four out of ten girls. This raises questions like ‘is being born a
woman a crime? Why girls are tortured and raped? Why are
females treated like a second-class citizens?