Learn to embrace the Randomness and embrace yourself

A Story by Shweta

Self-Motivation.Morning thought. Professional Learning.Self Grooming

Every morning we professionals get up and ready for the office.Spend time in office. Completing the assigned tasks and then back to home. Do Some work at home, eat dinner and sleep.Is this our life or we are habitual to make our life like this. Every human get a chance to live life at once. Live with your best. Love yourself.Learn things everyday.

Well, My philosophy is to embrace yourself and the randomness around you to make life challenging and avoid getting into redundant phase.

Let me tell you the story and to share my experience with you.

I am an IT professional, A tech person which I never thought of. But with time I don't know when I became the Engineer. I was just doing whatever came into my way and I accepted every challenge to give my best at that moment.

After Spending 7 years in IT profile, I am still not able to convince myself that this is my profession in future also.But I am doing this diligently as I love to do something new everyday. I always try to do something new everyday to make myself motivated in this particular field. Groom myself daily to become a good human being in professional and personal life as anyone cannot be perfect all time.

From Past 2-3 weeks I am struggling to help one of my friend who is very de-motivated and coward type in taking challenges. he was not like that earlier and some how today he is. A 100 and 1000 of ideas I am applying to make him motivated and believing in themselves. Though I am still struggling to make his life more meaningful ,Instead of what he think of. This is not I am doing because I will get something in revert. I am doing because making someone's life happy and delightful help in smiling that you give brightness in someone's life. Helping other makes you not only a good human but is shows the positiveness in you to leave life fully.

During this phase,I came to know that I am helping that person but internally I am feeling downgraded for myself. I am doubting my self that will I able to manage my self for more challenge.Will I be able to help him but forgetting about these question I always try to be on track in reality. Many thoughts grab your mind but you have to be focused,determined and discipline in all ways. When all these things happening inside outside, my manger notices a change in me and he said is everything all right as you become very silent these days. Why your graph seems to be neutral instead of going high. I cannot tell him what is going in my mind and I just stared random talks about growth and learning. At that moment I learned that designation matters but If you are not getting the same.Leave and work on your skill.Never run for the position if you have that skills and capability if this organization will not able to see you skill some other will.Do your best and embrace the randomness.

Accept whatever you have in your way and Do your best for the same.

Always motive yourself .No one else can do better for you except you.