YOU OR LOVE?

QUESTION IN MIND

 In life when you wait for something for so long and you get it you are supposed to be the happiest person on the planet. If that thing is Love then you ought to be happy. But a phase comes and you have to choose yourself or your love.  You have to choose when you will be happier, by fulfilling your own demands or by fulfilling the demands of the person you love most? Also whether you should consider the amount of love you are getting from the person you love? Also whether one should love the person blindly?

                On facebook or in any good place we read that one should love the person with minimum expectations. But if that person doesn’t love you as much as you do still whether the above statement is valid?  You have a fear of heart break. If we don’t expect anything from the person you love and feel hurt many times, then what’s the use of being in love? Somewhere by not hurting your love , indirectly you are hurting yourself. Your life is the most precious gift given to you by Almighty. So indirectly again you are hurting the creation of Almighty.

                People who are originally good by nature get across such dilemmas many times in life. Your own nature and past experiences or the “sanskar” what world does on you or your own world do on you brings more conflict in your mind. Anyway this whole writing was with the intention to find answer but still my eyes are looking continuously at the title of this article.