Chapter 91
Meeting the Locals
Part 1
Dad gave me no chance to hide away
instead he offered advice on how to handle the problem I was having regarding
my very stiff flag pole. Explaining that it’s ok that when it happens to just
let it happen, that there are better ways than putting a sock on the door and
deal with it that way, but if I did that. I’d be in my room all day and not
really facing the problem. The best way was to get involved in life instead of
hiding the fact I could be aroused every time I saw a pretty girl. I still felt
very self-conscious about it, so I put my trust in Dad that he was right.
Knowing that I had been taught just because it happens doesn’t mean I needed to
have or want to have sex. It just meant that I find the opposite sex attractive.
For the first time in my life, I realized life is complicated when dealing with
the opposite sex. Yet I still wished I was wearing a bathing suit and would
have if Mom and Dad would have let me. The fact that Dad was still aroused as I
was said that wasn’t going to happen, nor was I going to be allowed to put a
sock on the door. The problem would just return the moment I saw those girls
again. I cursed at my problem and did my best to ignore it. After all, it
wouldn’t stay that way, well I hoped it wouldn’t. So I put my best foot forward
and followed Dads example and asked if he still wanted to go canoeing.
Dad
placed his arm around mine and Jared shoulders and said. “That’s spirit, race
you to the boat shed.”
I had always wondered where nudists carry their money or their keys. I’d had
heard several possibilities, but those seemed crude and offensive. Like most
people, they carry purses that have long shoulder straps or fanny-packs that
fit around the waist or satchel like book bags. Like Mom was wearing telling us
that she was going into town to do some shopping. At first, I thought it was strange that Mom
had decided to go shopping wearing nothing but a smile and pair of flip- flops,
taken Jason and my baby brother with her, but then again we are living among a
group of nudist.
Personally, I was more concerned about her and them getting raped in the
streets, but Dad assured me that people here are really friendly and that sort
of behavior is frowned upon and anyone caught doing that would be tar and
feathered and ousted, providing if they lived long enough.
My first thought was Shawn and Arthur, one of the most likely reasons Dad
didn’t want them here because of that and due to their behavior issues. Dad must have sensed what I was thinking when
he said. “Son I proud of you for not choosing to handle your problem the easy
way, even though there’s nothing wrong with that and there is a time and place
to do that. Yet it is always better not to engage in that sort of practice when
there far better ways to deal with the problem you are having.” He looked down
at my now sagging flag pole. Which emphasized that not every problem last
forever.
I sighed with relief feeling a little more confident then I did, but I was
still kinda worried about it happening during the barbecue. Yet I didn’t want
to ruin our fun, by stating I couldn’t control myself. Besides, it's not like I
have never done this before, but being at home with family and friends is one
thing because you trust them and know they would never hurt you are make fun of
you, but I don’t know these people from Adam or their way of life. The fact
that it had taken years being comfortable in my own skin said I have come along
ways, and this too I would learn that I can present myself proudly and not
afraid of trying new things.
Just being here said that Mom and Dad were offering me and my brothers a gift
that we would treasure for the rest of our lives, and so far it has made our
family stronger and able to love each other again.
Instead of being in an environment that was tearing our family apart to point
the spirit of God that was in our home and love we had for each other had
disintegrated, leaving seeds of doubt, and mistrust that our lives and family
are unable to function like it had been; now being here has rejuvenated it once
more. The question is when we return home will the spirit and our bond with
each other still remain?
When Dad opened the boat shed he smiled telling us to close our eyes. When the
door opened he put his arms around us and walked inside the shed. When he told
us to open them we were amazed to see a large boat standing in our mist. A boat
built for speed, a boat that only rich people uses to go fishing or spend the
whole day on the water in comfort. Our mouths fell open at the size, knowing it
had always been a dream as a kid to sail away and feel the wind in your hair.
The fact there wasn’t a canoe insight said Dad had tricked us. Yet personally
Jared and I weren’t all that disappointed by both of us giving each other a
fist bump and quickly hugged each other and Dad. I now know what the key was
for.
Dad wasted no time in lifting us into the boat, handing each of us a
life-preserver. Telling us to take a seat and hang on. The boat purred to life
within a matter of seconds. I watched as the dock and our beach quickly faded
away into the distances. It seemed that we were the only ones on the planet.
Dad handled the boat like he had done it all his life. When he looked back he
smiled at us and slowed the boat down just enough that seemed we were standing
still but still moving. Dad asked me if I would like to drive. I was shocked
when he said it and I was worried that I would mess up because boats don’t have
wheels and they don’t have breaks. Yet as I said earlier I was willing to try
new things, so said “sure.”
Dad had me take a seat at the wheel and explained how it worked. Showing me the
throttle that gives the boat the gas to move and showed me the dials that were
called a “Control Station.” Showing me how fast I was going the same as a car.
He then took out a clipboard and wrote down each term they used like “Astern”
meaning the back of the boat, “Ahead” meaning forward, Port-side meaning Left
and Right side meaning “Starboard.” For now, that was all I needed to know, for
a kid going on a joy ride. I didn’t
think that Dad could sweeten the deal anymore when buying my silence regarding
the turn-table. In some ways, I felt sorry for Shawn missing out on this
lifetime experience.
Dad let go of the wheel said I was now in charge in which direction I went,
pointing out to the large lake that was dieing to be explored. The moment I
touched the throttle we jetted into a burst of speed. I quickly learned if I
went to fast it was harder to turn and harder to control my direction, again
there were no breaks to stop me.
Dad sat back in the passenger seat and stretched out his long legs, placing his
feet on the end of the control station as if he wasn’t concerned how fast I was
going or where I was taking us. After a while, Dad asked Jared if he would like
to give it try. What boy in his right mind turns down an opportunity to drive,
even more, a boat. I knew Shawn would be so jealous when he hears about how Dad
let us drive a boat, and I was good with that, and consider it one of the perks
for not being here.
After spending sometime joy riding Dad had Jared bring the boat to a stop or
adrift and set the anchor. Gave us a quick smile and quickly without warning
picked up Jared and threw him overboard and did the same to me. He wasn’t
worried about us drowning, knowing that we were both excellent swimmers. The
fact we had life-preserves was only for a safety precaution. Dad jumped in
doing a cannonball that sent a huge title wave.
At first, I was scared that some fish would get a surprise if we landed on
them. Yet fish are smart when something bigger than them enters the water… they
swim out of the way. Personally, I couldn’t blame them considering how big dad
was I be on the other side of the lake as fast as my tail could take me, even
faster if they knew that Dad would eat them.
By the time we climbed back into the boat, it was nearly 3 o’clock and the barbecue started and 6. Dad had me take
the wheel as he pulled up the anchor and had me turn to west according to the
compass. When we got close to the shore he took the wheel and guided it along
the dock. In front of us was a small town with boats like ours and other
sailboats.
I wasn’t surprised to find more nudists living among the shore and felt we fit
right in. The only worry I had was if I see another pretty girl and my
so-called problem returned. I soon realized that it didn’t matter when came to
age or body type, finding all kinds and none of them seemed a bit concerned
that we were new to the area and weren’t part of their culture.
Well not entirely since neither of us had any clothes on and with our complete
tan stated that we fitted right in. I did my best trying not to stare, keeping
my eyes straight and focused.
Dad brought the boat to a stop like an old pro, ordering me and Jared to jump
off and tie it off. I was a little rusty but got it on the second try. Knot
tying is not one of my strong talents, having Dad check to see if Jared and I
had done it correctly. Dad had us put or life-perseveres on the boat, sending
us off to find the harbormaster and tell him to fill our boat up with gas,
reaching for his fanny- pack which held his wallet and strapped it around his
waist and followed after us.
I was first surprised to find so many nudists that everywhere I looked… it
seemed like a whole different town, yet the same as one of our own small towns.
The only difference was very few if any had any clothes on as they went about
their businesses as if we had lived here all our lives.
I was wishing I had a camera and thought better of it knowing I wouldn’t like
anyone taking pictures of me without my clothes on. Instead, I focused on my
job finding the harbormaster at the end of the pier. I gave him the information
he needed and pointed to Dad and where our boat was docked. When Dad arrived he
put his arms around us and introduced us by a simple handshake. At first, I
thought here we go more hugging. Something I was very uncomfortable about doing
when wasn’t family or closes friends.
Yet it seemed a handshake was all that was needed Dad handing him the money and
the key telling him we’d be back in an hour. Dad and we walked among the people
and all of them were just as friendly as our neighbors down the beach. The only
difference was we only shook hands when Dad introduced us.
I saw many pretty girls and I was relieved that my problem was able to stay
under control. Dad stopped into ice cream parlor having us take a seat ordering
us each a large banana split telling us not to tell Mom. While we waited he
quickly brought the decision to the reason why we were here. Asking for my
permission to call my caseworker and extend our stay, informing me that my
mother wanted me to come home early for a home visit. Something I already knew
about after overhearing the conversation.
Personally, I was getting worried considering today was Thursday and how long
it took to get here. I knew the only way we make it back on time is if we left
in the morning and there would be no time to do anything other than the barbecue. Dad had promised us all that on the way back we would stop over at
our camping spot for two more days before going home.
What could I say? No Dad, I want to leave and I rather spend time with my
mother? In truth, I would rather die than go home and spend one minute in a
hostel environment always watching and wondering when my mother or my father
would try to kill me. Yes, I still don’t trust my mother enough not to change
back into the monster she was, even though she had proven over the last year
and half that she had changed and wanted me and my brother. I trusted more in
my foster parents that have shown me time and time again that they truly loved
me. Even though sometimes they go too far when comes to punishments.
Dad waited for my answer as I took a bite and asked when he wanted to go back.
He took the same amount a time stirring his ice cream. He said “I would like to
be back by next Friday giving us the entire weekend here and leave on Sunday or
Monday morning and still gives us two days at our campsite. I knew right away
that my mother was going to be furious, and that would only leave a full week
and part of a weekend, not the two weeks she wanted before school starts.
I nodded said. “That I would most likely have too called her and persuade her
by offering something in return.”
Dad simple said. “The world revolves around compromises.” So I agreed to the
terms, hoping my mother wouldn’t ask for the moon.
We finished our ice cream I felt as if the world was on my shoulders. I don’t
know why I felt that way? It was what it was. There was simply no way to
satisfy everyone, and even if we drove straight through, we would ruin the best
family vacation ever.
In fact, I was willing to risk a hundred embarrassing problems and situation then ruin
the chance to bond with my family. I know I was being selfish when it comes to
spending time with my brother and my mother. I just wanted my our life back
more, I wanted the spirit to fill us to the point we burst with it, and most of
all I wanted nothing but to feel love as a family. I simply wasn’t ready to
face home and the reality that waited for us there.
Dad found the pay phone and made the first call to my caseworker. Having me sit
next to him in case my caseworker needed to confirm that I was ok and willing
too extended our trip. That was the easy part. I knew my caseworker wasn’t
taking the news well, watching Dad remove the phone from his ear telling me to
deal with her. I waited for her to stop screaming at Dad for taking me so far
away that it would be impossible for her to say no.
Personally, I had a feeling that was Dads intention in the first place. In some
ways, he was smart by doing it, yet I couldn’t blame him because so far we were
having the time of our lives, just like Dad said we would.
I quickly mentioned my name after she took a moment to breathe. When she
realized it was me on the phone her voice changed from angry to calm. The first
question she asked if I was alright warning me not to lie to her. I said I was
fine other than sunburned in places I hadn’t thought the sun could never touch.
I knew she didn’t quite understand my situation having me repeat where I was
since all she could gather from my monitoring device that I was in a town she
never heard of and was about 1,000 miles away for home.
I waited for the explosion when I said we are living in a nudist colony. I
waited for the words to register and when they did she shouted at me to hand me
the phone back to my Dad.
Dad waited for her to calm down hearing her over the phone shouting regarding
the fact we weren’t skinning dipping or at home with family and friends.
Instead, he had taken me to a nudist colony exposing me and my family too
people that didn’t know about us from Adam.
Dad grinned said. “Yes, and I and my family are having the time of our lives,
Eric is perfectly safe and couldn’t be safer as if I could have wrapped in
bubble-wrap. The people are friendly and quite understanding that we are new to
their culture, and I was doing it to show and prove to my sons. That God has not
tainted us for what my son Shawn has done.”
Dad cringed when he mentioned where Shawn and Arthur were stating that they are
on work detail at home and staying at a military camp in hopes of correcting
behavior issues. I knew it was a lie, yet personally, I simply didn’t care if
they were being raped repeatedly or working from sun up to sun down, but
neither did it make me warm and fuzzy inside.
When Dad told her when we would be back the shouting started all over again;
having Dad yell back that if it wasn’t for having to waste all that time in
getting ready for court we could have left sooner. Having the phone go
completely silent, Dad had her over a barrel, knowing perfectly well that she
wouldn’t drive 1,000 miles to come to get me nor would my mother.
I knew when we got back that they were going to have words and they weren’t
going to be pretty. The fact that most of those days were basically taking care
of Jody, and we couldn’t leave because Shawn and Arthur were coming home said
all that needed to be said.
Dad hung up the phone and dialed my mother and I knew from the get-go that my
mother was about to freak out. Yet not once did she scream and yell only asked
to speak with me. Dad handed me the phone taking a napkin and wiped the sweat
off his face. I told my mother I was fine and where I was repeating everything
we had told my caseworker.
My mother was a little more understanding, the fact that I was living as a
nudist didn’t seem to bother her. Stating it was good that I was having a good
time and that coming home wouldn’t have been ideal compared to the experiences
I was having. Yet neither was she going to let my foster Dad off the hook so
easily.
She wanted those days she could have had with me, she wanted him to make up for
it regardless that it wasn’t his fault for postponing our summer vacation so
closes to the new school year. That left her less than a week to have me home.
She had me put my foster Dad on the phone.
Like always my mother wanted the moon and Dad simply let her. She wanted all of
UEA weekend, the two weekends besides and wanted to join us at our campsite and
take me home with her. Dad agreed to give me a knuckle bump stating that will
make the final arrangements when we meet up at our campsite.
Dad quickly gave her the instruction on how to get there. Told her to beware of
the bears and the snakes, hoping to get my mother to change her mind. Yet he
doesn’t know my mother. If she wants something she usually gets it if she wants
it bad enough.