I am teaching my daughter to drum
This is the walking beat
I tell her
This is the first beat you should learn
It helps you to establish a rhythm
It encourages you to use both hands
It gives you a basic beat to build from
This is boring
She tells me
I am teaching my daughter to grow
This is honesty
I tell her
This is the first value you should learn
It helps you to see things clearly
It encourages you to be true to yourself
It gives you a solid belief to build from
This is boring
She tells me
I am teaching my daughter to love
This is self-respect
I tell her
This is the first feeling you should learn
It helps you to love yourself
It encourages you to love others
It gives you the freedom to say no
This is boring
She tells me
I am teaching my daughter to love
and respect herself
I am teaching my daughter to trust
and to be real
I am teaching my daughter to use
both hands to love others
to be free to see things clearly
to grow to drum
This is boring
She tells me
This is your basic beat
I tell her
This is the first beat you should learn
Published in The Woman in theMirror: An Anthology of Women Celebrating Women, 2004