BEFORE YOU PUSH THE SEND BUTTON

Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places. Before you send that message, you might want to check to see if he is part of a secret society of "Professional Divorce Planner, LLC."

    SERIAL BULLY AND SOCIOPATH
   WHAT DO THEY HAVE IN COMMON?    

I hope this is not what our government had in mind when they decided

to help those people fend off foreclosure. I feel like up chucking with

this one. And it just goes on and on and nobody cares. I am appalled.

From my website;  Everyday Sociopath and an article regarding

Sociopathic Divorce, this is I hate to say, another chapter. Surely this

man will not get relief from the mortgage while holding assets.  If he gets

this government bailout,  I was informed I will be on the hook for the

mortgage forever. You see,  they do not make him refinance and of course

that is the only way my name is removed!  NO Way Out.

What does a Bully and a Sociopath Have In Common?

Before you push the send button on your computer, WARNING!!
You may be corresponding with a Serial Bully.  If I can save one person from the nightmare I have been and continue to live, I will call it a successful mission.

My site is dedicated to those who unknowingly become involved with one who has anti-social behavior disorders or commonly called a sociopath.  These men and women cruise the internet and
social networks just looking for someone to take advantage of. My serial bully resembles something like the bunny on television advertising those batteries.  He just keeps on coming and coming.
The term Roll-over has come to have a completely new meaning to me. During the last year, I have not only Rolled-over, I have paid to do so. Paid attorney’s to the tune of over $10,000. Yet, our Justice System is structured such that he can continue to drag out our legal battle.
Take notes people, as my book says, this new con or bully’s game will drive you nuts.
Here are the facts today.  After one year of trying  just to get this loon to go away,  rolling over and
over,  he continues to insist on the following settlement.
Fact:  Together we purchased a single property home in the state of Louisiana.  He placed my small 401K into the down payment of the property along with other hard earned fruits of my labor. Moving me miles
and miles away into another state gave him the advantage in our game of who’s up, who’s down.
Additionally, he proceeded to move a clear home equity line of credit into his bank  account.
Now the Louisiana stud, aka, Professional Divorce Planner, knew by being
in the great southern state of Louisiana he would indeed gain the upper hand. As I have told my
sorrowful tale to all who would listen, looking in all the right and wrong places for help, it is with
sadness I say today, sociopathic divorce is hell.
This stud and professional rip-off artist knows the law better than most divorce attorneys.
Try as I might, I can neither get ahead of him legally nor away from him morally.  Of course men/women
like this sociopath have no remorse or sorrow, nor conscience. Therefore, reason does not exist when
dealing with this anti-social behavior.  Thinking like a bully takes a bully. Unlike him I have tried the
legal way but bullies take the long way around the court room or really just the justice system.
If you have money it is possible to twist and turn forever, in Louisiana anyway.  So here he sits with
money in the bank, some hidden, some under other peoples names, some under other peoples social
security numbers.  Rich may be a stretch but in comparison to what I have he is definitely rich.
He holds a check made payable to both of us since, January of 2009. Yet, he will not give me my
half and therefore I expressed the williness to help him fly away and land on someone else’s rooftop,
and spread his bird poop;  give him the money. But no, thats not enough.  He has
decided he wants my 1/2 of the home, my 1/2 of the free and clear home equity loan he took,
and all his assets in any ER, 401K, or Pension plan he currently holds.  I said okay.  Give it all
to him. Then out of the blue that was not enough….To my surprise, the bully wants not just to take
me for a ride, but also our government and your tax dollars.  He decided to let the home go into
foreclosure and then after several months he would file for our new mortgage assistance program.
Now, lets get this straight. He holds $8,400 since Jan. 09. The total monthly mortgage payment
was only $1100.  Yet, he decided not to make a payment, starting in June so he would qualify
for the assistance program.  He applied October, 09 and as of now, he pays Nov. 1
2009, $700 and change.  This con man holds somewhere in the neighborhood
of $400 – to $500,000 in various positions and assets.
I call the bank, guess what, surprise, yes my name is on all the documents and I am responsible
for all the loan but I have NO say regarding what he is doing. Why? I was actually told, each
state does things differently. Okay. So here is a man, who is more than capable of paying his
mortgage, but doesn’t. So our government is going to BAIL him out of what he calls his financial
crisis.  He has two companies that I know about, and works under many alias, as well he receives
pension money monthly enough to pay the mortgage. I informed my attorney months ago, I do not have
any more money to fight a never ending battle or cause.
God if I only had not pushed the SEND button on M____..com when he was playing me for
such a fool.  Searching on these sites make you ripe for picking by these con men.

My question for any court or any  judicial agency in Louisiana would be;

He drew his very own Partition Agreement in Dec. 08 and filed it with the court.

Now, he doesn’t like his Partition or isn’t happy with what he wrote or filed.

So what, live with it. Other courts would make him stick with his wishes why

then not Louisiana.   Does his past come in to count; I’m number four on a

list of past history dancing his way around a court room and the Louisiana

Judicial System.

The property is worth $285,000 and we owe $199,000. So actually I was glad to see
the foreclosure because at least I would not be held responsible forever, it would be now and
over. If he gains the government subsidy program, I will be held responsible for another
five (5) years. Meanwhile, he will be able to sell the home and make at least $50,000 and with
the $35,000 he’s holding in his box in the bank in cash, well, he did not lose anything.
Heck of way to gain money.  Would you have been able to think this one up?  Not me.
I ask for Fairness in our Judicial System.  I was told “you can not get fairness from someone
who lacks reason and/or empathy. These individuals have no sense of fair play nor do they
respect the law.
So if your on a website checking out the personals looking for the love of your life and hoping to
find someone who will love and protect you and take care of you until he or you die, good luck.
Be careful and think about this before you push SEND!
Not only is this guy taken advantage of me but he’s also taken advantage of our system.
Are these the type of individuals who will gain by the Great American Bailout?

I pray, plead, beg, and pay for help. I know I’m not the only one in this position, these sad stories
are all over the internet.  Whats wrong with our Judicial System that the sense of fairplay and
justice has been removed?

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