Reading from Chapter 11 of my book......
UPDATE ON SOCIOPATH AND DIVORCE
Scorecard for evil .. Sociopath 4 - Normal Person 1
I am sure if you have had the pleasure of dealing with a Sociopath, or commonly called a "Bully" during
divorce, you will relate to this article. This game as he see's it is far from over. Mr. Charm on both occasions
when we visited the courtroom came dressed to the 9's in his bluejeans. I don't know about Louisiana, but here
in Texas we dress to go to court. Most judges will throw you out of court if you disrespect them by dressing down.
But when your a Sociopath you dress as you want. Society norms mean nothing to you as you make your own
social norms. I recently met someone who knew Mr. Charm and he laughed as he stated to me, we could not
believe you were with such a buffoon. He acts like he knows everything and is good at everything but the reality is
no one likes him or wants to be around him. Unless he is drunk and around his own kind, his social skill is less
than acceptable. Its such a pity that so many laugh at him. His games he loves to play are all known by others.
He thinks others are unaware of his silly games but they are actually smarter than him. His "tall tales" and His
being a pathological liar mean all that comes out of his mouth, including his teeth are false. This "Bully" as he is
known to others had a few tricks yet to play in the Legal arena.
Nothing but nothing he does surprises me anymore. I was told by someone we met sized him up in a couple of
minutes of being full of B.S. This person does profiles for a living with the FBI. What was I doing with him? I have
long gotten over asking myself that question and now am concentrating on getting my life back to normal. Normal
excludes having to deal with him or have any contact with him what so ever. I will continue to tell all what great new
tricks he pulls. I received an email from someone telling me her story and asking what I would do to get away
from her Sociopath husband. My only advice to her or anyone involved with these predators is to get away
from them as soon as possible. Have no contact with them. They are nuts and have zero ability of a reasonable
man. So whatever you do in the way of fighting him, he turns it all around and blames you. Poor thing, he's
the victim. Her story was full of horror just as my own. Her Justice System was failing her also.
Girls, this is the latest one. As I am officially Divorced from Mr. Charm, but the property settlement is
on going in Louisiana I was shocked to learn that Mr. Charm had decided in June to stop paying the
mortgage on the property homestead in Louisiana. Now in December when I escaped, he was going
to live there, so the payment was not an issue. He agreed in his legal document he drew up himself, to
sell the property and divide the proceeds if he did not live in the property. Well, its really sad but,
he did not live there saying his poor old mother is sick and he has to live with her and take care of her so
he could not live in the property. His stronger than me or Hercules Mother lives approximately 10 minutes
from the property and her Other son lives behind her house in a portable building, again he too is said to be
taking care of her. In February Mr. Charm sent me papers to sell the property, which I signed and assumed
the property would be listed for sale. Nope not that easy. While I'm thinking he's living in the property
and putting it up for sale, he wasn't. Before I left, he went to the bank and opened a bank account in his
name only and transferred a free and clear $35,000 home equity loan into his account. Bingo, I am now on
the hook for now the mortgage and the second mortgage as well. He also received a check in the amount
of $8,400 for Mineral Rights on the property however, he did not cash the check as it was payable to
both he and me. In his investment accounts he has managed to gain $400,000 however, again playing the
pity poor card show 0000000's. I do however have proof this is incorrect. He sprung another card in the
game of poker as he pulled out another $40,000 which was a loan he took out for his business only in his
name however he is trying to hold me responsible for half of that as well. Lets see in order to HURT me
he has decided to let the home go into Foreclosure. You see as everyone in the United States knows they
pull your credit for everything. You can't buy anything or rent a house or even get cell phone that they
do not pull your credit. They even re-evaluate your existing credit cards and check your credit rating to make
sure your paying your bills and your status has not changed. Well I give him that round. He has completely
destroyed my credit and ability to purchase anything and to even get a job.
I intend to contact his prior employer and give them pictures of all the things he has stolen from them.
I have informed the mortgage company that he has money and refuses to pay inorder to hurt me not because
he lacks money to do so. I have already spoken to the IRS and let them know the game he is playing and
they will be watching out for his tax returns in coming years. I intend to go to court to let the judge be the
one to decide who gets what. Mr. Charm did not give me a chance to pay the house until it was three months
in arrears. Told the mortgage company he had no marital problem and therefore they had no idea to contact
me. I did contact the mortgage company and requested forms for Mr. Charm to put the home in his name only.
No charge, takes 30 days, just fill out the form. NOPE! He would not do that either. He would not lease
the house either. Was there equity in the property. Yes, but it consisted of my money that was taken from my
401K and proceeds from another property for the downpayment. So in his devilish mind, he lost nothing. He was
right. If I had $600,000 someplace, I would not need credit or a mortgage either. I would also pay cash for
everything. Not all of us are that lucky. The mortgage company did not at that time tell me he was
in arrears, its another department, I was told. Thats okay because whatever he does he will never know true
and complete happiness. As a Bully no one likes you. As a Sociopath, everyone calls you sick. Both of
which are true about him. Sick and mean. My book "The Professional Divorce Planner, LLC" will be out
soon and I describe him further in more detail as to his habits and how he steals and lies. I wonder what his
x company is going to think when they see pictures of their old computers and miscellaneous tools and
equipment. Think they will want someone like him on their property. Thank goodness I have a friend that
even works for that company and can help get those things to the right people. I received a call the other day
just to let me know that Mr. Charm is being watched and hopefully will be caught with a gun soon. If so,
oh gosh, does that mean he will go directly to jail? Maybe he will be put in a cell with someone who likes
to control people and do kinky things during sex. He enjoys that. You see, he was convicted of Domestic
Violence and per the Supreme Court, he is not suppose to carry a gun or have a gun. But he does.
He may think he can hide the gun for awhile but maybe when he least expects someone to catch him, they will.
I will continue to write to the legislature and the representatives for his area and see if something can be
done to prevent him from ruining others lives. I do have the ability Thank Goodness, to post his name
on a website which is for those people who have an STD but will go around and knowingly and willfully
have sex and not disclose to the other party they have a disease which may alter their lives forever.
Perhaps if he connects with someone else through the internet dating site, M ---- h.com; they will try and
pull his name up on the internet and find out what slime and slug he is.
As I await my day with the judge to at least give me 50%, Documents mount up in my defense and
I can not wait until Mr. Charm has to explain all those $$$$$$'s and why he let a home go into foreclosure
over a payment of $1,100 when he sits holding so much money. Oh well, as a good liar, I am so sure it will
be a great story for all. My new book is currently in the cover department and will hopefully be out in 45 days.
Just for Christmas. I can't wait. Its such a great book I even give you a guide in the book, where it has
questions about the person your dating. Look around and be aware of your surroundings. If it looks like a
pig, its a pretty good chance its a pig. Wish I knew me, before I knew him.
Bon Boni, thats good bye in Dutch....I'm going to Bonaire for a week of vacation and scuba diving for a
great celebration of getting rid of trash around my house.
I'll keep you updated on his comings and goings...
Also check out these other websites for info on Sociopaths and other Anti-social behavior disorders.
www.lovefraud.com
www.upagainstevil.com
SK Covey
In The Arms of a Sociopath
The Professional Divorce Planner, LLC
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