Living purposefully remains a mystery to a whole lot of
people yet unraveling your purpose can be one of the most sensational moments
of your life. It’s in human nature to encounter impediments but they should
never be a stumbling block to this beautiful and amazing journey of
self-discovery. All the same, you don't have to feel incompetent or rather
impractical just because you are yet to unfold this mystery. You probably are
yet to do so due to the unconscious lack of will power (at least you can work
on this), or maybe you are in denial (by this, i mean you probably have looming
signs of what could be your purpose but behind your mind, an uncertain
voice dissuades you).
I personally had an interesting self-discovery moment of my purpose, after soul
searching for long. It all happened a while ago, after reading a very
informative book on the ''fear of success''...it provided deep insight on how
one should fight back his or her fears in order to acknowledge success. The
book basically pointed out that many people fail to find satisfaction in
success due to the impending fear of the society. Most people associate their
success with the ''pleasing principle'' of the society. In other words one has
to please the society to feel successful. Having been a victim of such, I can
tell of the insecurities that overshadows ones personality. This amazing book
happened to be an eye opener besides challenging me to face my fears. This is
when I confronted my denial and fully accepted the fact that I had great
passion in volunteering. I finally had the courage to face the bull of fear by
its horns. Better still, I have come to terms with the fact that I do not need
approval from the society to explore my passion.
Well, you don't have to live in that world of uncertainties anymore because you
just arrived at the right destination for this treasure hunt. All you need to
do is to set your mind free of those barriers that derail you from figuring out
what you are meant for in life.I strongly believe that each and every single
human being has got a God given purpose. It’s just that the realization of such
callings unwinds differently for each person.
Therefore, no matter how disappointing life is sometimes, remember all is not lost.
Always remind yourself that there is light at the end of that dark tunnel.
Quit thinking of what people will say. So what if the society disregards your passion?
The only room you should give to the society is that of inspiration. Any
fulfillment that comes with it should be the one approval you ought to care
about.
Do what you love even if there are no physical rewards. It does not have to be outrageous,
instead its weight should be felt as a result of the impact it has on people's
lives.
With these few steps you will find your misplaced purpose.
Do not carry your God given gift to the grave, instead let it bear
ceaseless fruits.