Hurting people hurt other's

we need to be graceful

Hurt often comes when we have been rejected, abused,
Many misunderstandings arise, when the person or should
I say persons see the same situation differently from the one
that is being hurt.
Often we are caught up in our own misery, to really deal with the other
person's opinion.
This can cause relationships to be strained and UN-forthcoming.
Most of the time we just never really get to the point of saying
sorry, "and yes its hurts I should know I have been there myself. "
Some-one constantly reminding you of your past failures and were you have went wrong, So what everybody makes mistakes.? Who doesn't
We need to learn from it pick up the pieces and then move on.
Holding on to the bitterness, makes our heart grow cold and hard.
Henceforth, cutting ourselves from our dear relatives sisters brothers
etc, the list is endless.
We should strive to be like our Lord Jesus Christ who has more than enough grace and compassion for us.
That is why he restored mankind to himself, God wouldn't certainly not cut us off with Goodbyes, this is the devil lie.
In God's word he say's the Satan comes to kill steal and destroy.
We need to come to the point of forgiving each others faults.
In this life we will hurt each other whether we like it or not.
Come now let us reason say's the lord, tho your sins are like scarlet 
They will be washed  purer than the snow.