Why not him?

Why he is not the right guy for you? Have you ever met a amazing guy but there is a little doubt in your heart.

Why not him?

I am not ready for commitment.

It’s hard out there and I don’t see myself truly and deeply connected to one single person I am scared of getting hurt. Being an emotional practical woman I see myself constantly battling between my heart and my mind so when it comes to commitment i look for balance between the two.

May be he just want SEX

He throws himself on everyone may be he is desperate to have sex or to be popular around girls or its in his nature. But I don’t want him to be around me or pleasing me for the sake of sex it makes me feel like I lost my worth my self confidence. Sex is human need and I want it too but he is a friend so meaningless sex is a far game I think I might feel bad if I don’t get little more after Sex.

It’s his Game

He seems too confident about himself and he knows when to speak I would say he is a player he know how to get his way around people. He says he is emotionless that means he may show no interest in person once he get what he wants. I don’t have enough time in my life to play such games and see whether I win or loose.

Womanizer!

Insecurity,  Jealousy, Self doubt is not my cup of tea but because of him being too smooth around girls made me feel little anxious. He is not a womanizer but do I know the correct balance between giving his female friends f**k or not. I don’t see myself as a possessive bimbo in his life just because he is addicted to being the hero.

He thinks he likes me.

It is just infatuation between us. The initial feelings in a relationship are short lived. Everything is shiny and new but once the newness wears off you are often left with holes in your apple pie sky. So why waste time until we both are not sure.

Divided Attention

This is something I cannot make my peace with I cannot bear his divided attention. One day he is all over me and the other day we are like two normal person who tend to know each other, this confuse me a lot I enjoy his attention but there comes a time when I don’t get that which makes me loose my interest in him. It breaks the flow between us.

Not ready to put Efforts

He is lazy or too busy with his life to put efforts for us. He also sees some heat between us but just not ready to put efforts cause he thinks it is waste of time which is valid I can’t argue that. But, then how would I know he want it too I just see no point of considering him without seeing any efforts from his side.

Author's Note

Have you ever came across such a guy or girl in your life who just seem right but you're not totally convinced?

Reviews

[angel]

No, I was totally convinced. He was, without a doubt, the one for me.
Problem: I was not the one for him.
He loved another, for long before we ever met.
He said that if I had met him first, things might have been different.
Alas, I was fifteen when he was busy falling in love.
Not his fault, nor mine. Not hers, either...just an accident of time.