Quick Updates About Myself

This is a quick update about myself.

How's it going writers? I know haven't been spending as much time on here. Then again, there aren't as many people on Writer's Cafe at the moment. I'm currently searching for another weblog community, that has less political drama and more of a "young adult" demographic than Blogster. This doesn't necessarily mean, that I will automatically discriminate against those, who are in their 40's and older. I have already told my Xangan and Blogsterian friends/subscribers on my Blogster page, that I plan on spending less time on Blogster.

http://www.blogster.com/realistme/blogging-on-blogster-lesser-than-before

Blogster has too much toxicity on it. Anytime my other Xangan and Blogsterian friends/subscribers have to inbox me saying, they're sick of being on Blogster, it's bad. Hopefully, once more bloggers from My Opera settle onto Vivaldi.net and Vivaldi adds more features, my other friends/subscribers will hopefully decide to follow me there. Vivaldi.net is still very new. Therefore, most in general are hesitant about joining it.

Some are content with Blogster because they already have their own friends/subscribers. Some of them have more subscribers than I do, when I was the main Xangan to have them follow me to Blogster. I'm happy that some of them are enjoying their Blogsterian friends/subscribers. However, some of us Xangans are unsatisfied. I guess some of you reading this entry can say I've grown "self-entitled" to having more subscribers. I went from having 50 Xangan subscribers on Xanga 1.0 within 1/2 year to only having 16 subscribers on Blogster within another 1/2 year. Out of those 16 subscribers, they're mostly my Xangan subscribers. Even though some Blogsterians have been very warm and welcoming to me, I can't say this for the majority of them.

I've witnessed, as well as personally experienced just how incredibly rude, dismissive, coy, cliquey, nitpicky, and narrow-minded most of the Blogsterians are on Blogster. This goes beyond their political views. In fact, there's a particular Blogsterian, who shares the same Xangan and Blogsterian friends/subscribers I have yet she's a rude, dismissive, pompous a*s, who loves instigating and thinks it's her duty to put people in their places. She already had a track record, before I met her on Blogster. Seeing the way she reacted towards me a few times on mutual friends' pages annoys me. That Blogsterian is only 1 blogger. Meanwhile, she has other friends, who have very similar personalities to hers.

I always love when people use the word, "blunt" as an excuse to be rude. As I've said before in the past, people can be "blunt" without being rude. I consider myself to be a blunt person. Although, I try not to be rude and hurt people's feelings. Some of those so-called "blunt" people on Blogster are purposely insensitive and almost resemble trolls.

Having loyal friends is a bonus, while having subscribers. I don't mind subscribing to other bloggers as long as they don't spam me to death like someone with OCD. There are quite a few OCD Blogsterians, who love posting 3-10+ entries within a day. They don't realize, that they're not they only bloggers on Blogster. Even if they were, it's ridiculous to assume everybody wants to read that many blogs from the same blogger. I read 2 years ago, that 1-2 blogs within a day is sufficient. The moment someone posts beyond 2 entries, that's extreme. I have unsubscribed from a few Blogsterians because their entries were overkill. Whether I come home from a job or not, I don't want to read that many entries from the same person. I'm already subscribed to a few others on the site. The only reason why that blogger should post that many entries is if he/she must literally copy and paste pre-existing blogs from another site. Otherwise, he/she has Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. The same applies to writers on Writer's Cafe and their read requests.

In the meantime, please feel welcome to check out my website, It's Not All Gumdrops & Unicorns. I blog regularly on it. Yesterday morning, I changed the scenery to green for Saint Patrick's Day. LOL! Anyway, let me know what you think about my website, It's Not All Gumdrops & Unicorns. 

Reviews

[damnpamn]

I agree about blogster. It is one of the reasons I came here. I'm still looking for my new blog home though.

[RealistMe]

As soon as Vivaldi.net gets everything and everyone situated, you might like the site.

[Vidya Bacchus]

This was very interesting my friend,Your world really isn't all gumdrops and unicorns lol

[RealistMe]

I know right? LOL! There's always chaos on my end both on and offline.

[Vidya Bacchus]

Well who wants a boring life right .You would go stark ,raving mad .

[RealistMe]

LOL! Well, I already have in a sense gone stark, raving mad by having to read and stare at the most boring blogs and photos being posted on Blogster. The way those Blogsterian subscribers flock to the most boring entries is maddening. I look at those bloggers on Blogster and I'm like "Seriously? What is so great about that post, that it warrants such high ratings?" When I was on Xanga 1.0, I made the front page and was at #1 a few times. There's a lot of discrimination on Blogster. Did you read my Blogster link, that I posted in this entry?

[Vidya Bacchus]

I haven't got a chance yet but I will.I am buried under read requests so as soon as I am done :P

[RealistMe]

Oh okay. Do you get a lot of read requests like I do?

[Vidya Bacchus]

Yes they seem to multiply faster than I can read them lol

[RealistMe]

Yeah, I know what you mean. LOL!

[Vidya Bacchus]

Lol ..................:P