I replied

They said , " Don't judge . you don't know what we have been through "

I replied,

"Well , you shouldn't have judged your past as an excuse to be who you are today.you might not be responsible for what happened to you and where you reached but you sure never died and restarted with an unhealthy , destructive lifestyle .You let your past  control you ,change you and destroy you and all I've not done is " Sympathize " and all I will do is judge you by your present."

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[Wølfy]

My reply: I did not judge you. I am not a Christian.

But seriously I found this quite funny. Life is one of those things that is a mess. There is good and bad. People tend to judge based on many things like outward appearance and the past. You tell someone you were sent to jail for murder and people instantly become afraid because psychologically we believe humans will never change. Now, while it is true we evolve, we can see a pattern with humans and change. Sometimes humans just do not change, and sometimes they do. Some for only a few seconds minutes or days. Others for weeks, months and years. It then comes down to a matter of perspective.

[Lenah Mehzabin]

It was really a realistic perspective of yours that I obviously agree with ..but certainly my reply was to those particular people who lead life way too much by there emotions and less by " Judging what's Right To Do at The very Present" life is critical and we are no angel.So every moment we do make big or small mistakes, some regret of their deed and some don't some tend to change some remain the same and get even worse ..But the point is we can't harm our self by there vulnerability and so we have to judge them by their present actions . From my personal view everyone one should be judged by who there "not were"

[Wølfy]

I try my best not to judge people as I know how it feels to be judged. However, if you think about for a second there is no present as time is always moving forward, never stopping. Of course, that is if you are being super technical.

[Lenah Mehzabin]

When you know you are doing the right thing you shouldn't not be effected by how others thinking of you.Now the point is " What do I mean by right thing"? well the things that doesn't influence society,people around you , next generations in bad and unhealthy way are the clear right things .And present is running? yes scientifically it is and I would like to judge people by the very running nano seconds and judgement doesn't always give a negative portfolio of any certain person ..it heps you to know how the person is in different situations

[Wølfy]

Yeah, that is true. However, the human mind psychologically takes in what people say or even do not say and can view it in a thousand different ways. Psychologically we became effected by what is said or not said.

For example, I am a nice person, kind and caring. However, a preacher of a Christian church once said people who wear all black are a lost cause. Now, if you know me, I wear all black almost everyday and that day I happened to be wearing my black tripp pants. Psychologically, I was very upset, among other things (punching a preacher is probably a sin in god's eyes.) Now, I know I am a nice person, but think about all someone else would feel or perhaps how would you feel? What if you had a child that wore all black and that happened.

[Writer at last! Sky ~]

I reply: Just live the life the way it comes to you. No regret for past no worries for future. That is how you can enjoy your present moment...

[Lenah Mehzabin]

Very true...You received the message with perfection.Thanks for the review !

[Writer at last! Sky ~]

You conveyed the message with perfection. Welcome!