Mental adultery is to picture situations in the mind; to think adultery in the mind with a person to the point that if the opportunity were presented you would commit the physical act.
Virtual lustful interactions can often be a million times more intense & memorable than the everyday physical counterpart. I've been in this situation & even when there is NO LUST being swapped, just the intensity of wanting to hear from that other person so much, so often . . . it's like a huge horrible contrast to the everyday take-him/her-for granted way that many longtime couples interact. The spurned spouse feels neglected just due to the sheer excitement the other texting partner incites . . . it doesn't have to get anywhere near sex for this to be a painful betrayal. You state all this in a concise & compelling way (((HUGS))) Fondly, Margie
Virtual lustful interactions can often be a million times more intense & memorable than the everyday physical counterpart. I've been in this situation & even when there is NO LUST being swapped, just the intensity of wanting to hear from that other person so much, so often . . . it's like a huge horrible contrast to the everyday take-him/her-for granted way that many longtime couples interact. The spurned spouse feels neglected just due to the sheer excitement the other texting partner incites . . . it doesn't have to get anywhere near sex for this to be a painful betrayal. You state all this in a concise & compelling way (((HUGS))) Fondly, Margie
I am caught in a time spiral of confusion; that period we all experience between birth and death.
Somewhere inside hides a poet, writer, lyricist and/or whatever, laying dormant and suppressed by s.. more..