SaluteA Story by Kathryn SmithLadies all across the world:
Listen up, we're looking for recruits!
Get your killer heels sneakers pumps or lace up your boots
Representing all the Women Salute! Salute!
Last summer, after rediscovering my love for soccer, and after the excitement of the FIFA World Cup, I decided to get a ball and play again.
My family still seems to think my sudden love for the sport is strange.
The reason they think I pay attention to soccer, is because of all the attractive men. Wrong.
The reason why I fell in love with soccer again is because…
a) It's a sport I can actually play. (I’m terrible with anything that involves a ball…except for soccer)
b) Its fun!
c) Its good exercise
d) It is something new and refreshing for me.
Feminism has been making massive waves in society lately.
It has been in television, music, and in books. Many artists are making their voices heard. They’re getting louder and louder every day.
Our world is changing.
Women have come a very long way…but we still have miles to go.
I’ve always been a free spirit and have never been afraid to be myself and show my feelings.
I noticed early on, anytime I gushed about liking a guy, it was frowned upon.
I was labeled "boy crazy" and it was a negative thing. Women apparently aren’t supposed to be crazy about men.
If we are, we’re considered a serial dater, a s**t, or some kind of sleaze.
We must be reserved.
We must be mysterious.
If we’re in love, all we should do is bat our eye lashes and have a twinkle in our eyes.
But yet it’s okay for men to be crazy about women?
I don’t think that’s very fair.
I was talking about an artist named Sufjan Stevens today.
Someone literally thinks the only reason why I like him, is because a man I like very much, likes him too.
Because he introduced him to me.
That’s not the case.
I had heard Sufjan before, but didn’t have much interest.
I have been criticized and asked why I didn’t fall in love with him when my siblings liked his music, years ago.
Did it ever occur to them that maybe…just maybe I had a different taste in music?
That I was in a world of my own at the time?
That I was a bit too immature to really sit down and absorb his words and fully understand them?
Sufjan’s newest work is something I can relate to.
It’s about death…and back then, when my siblings listened to him, Carrie and Lowell (His most recent album) wasn’t even a glimmer in his eye yet. The reason why I love this man so much is because his music and words are words I've been needing and looking for.
It deeply saddens me that no matter how many times I speak the truth and explain myself as a woman, I am shut down and argued with.
My voice is blocked and isn’t allowed out.
Now I've had enough. I am taking a stand for all the women out there who are silenced.
We go through a society where everyone thinks we need a man to define us. The sole reason why we like anything at all is because it has to do with a man.
We must hurry up and marry.
Start a family.
Become super moms who are addicted to Pinterest.
Those labels are rubbish.
I’m also standing for the women of Brazil.
Brazil is currently playing in the Women’s World Cup.
If you’ve been watching, hardly anyone from their country has come to cheer their soccer players on.
They don’t have much support or encouragement but these women play anyway.
For women, playing soccer in Brazil is deeply frowned upon.
and that breaks my heart.
Don't give up ladies!
Each day we are getting closer to being equal.
Our voices will be heard. We will change this world. We’ll make sure of it. No one can stop us now.
Women are fighters.
We deserve to be heard.
I for one, will never again let my voice be silenced. You think we're just pretty things you couldn't be more wrong can't stop a hurricane it's time to awake We might only have one match but we can make an explosion https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kjpa0SMOug0 © 2015 Kathryn SmithFeatured Review
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