Food for thought

Just a tiny bit of reflection

There are certain realities of life which cannot be ignored however they are not taken into consideration and keep lying in dormant phase at the end corner of our mind or we can say that we keep suppressing them and they become our subconsciousness.

Supposedly, if we take a look at our inside, we will surely find numerous instances when a person we liked or a person who was dearest to us, inflicted us pain in the form of acts or it might be through harsh words but being unable to cut off the person from our lives, we kept justifying their actions. That's only because we couldn't let them go. We put those issues behind and kept trying to maintain that relationship by being optimistic.

But the problem is, those behaviours can never be forgotten, we can forgive a person even if they never regret but we can never forget hurtful times. They leave too deep a mark. The only thing which we can do in such case is either to be so strong that those memories are unable to mentally harm us or we can just remove the associated people from our life once and for all. Only this way, we can survive without being broken down..

Yes or no??

Author's Note

Few simple words. You may or may not agree with me but do share your thoughts with me..;-)

Reviews

[Saman Fatima]

Yea I totally agree with you, there are so many truths and realities that we try to keep buried deep somewhere in the corner or our brains. Whenever they try to come out of the pit into our consciousness we always have lies and reasons to justify ourselves. And most of the times we succeeds in tricking ourselves that they don't even exist. But the truth is they still remains there, shouting to be acknowledged.
My opinion is that instead of running from them we should face them. We should accept the truth and reality. Like you've mentioned that sometime we get hurt by someone we really love and keep tries to justify their actions with our own reasons. But the truth is that what have been done can never be undone, we should accept that, and if after that we want to forget or forgive someone then at least our subconsciousness can live in peace, otherwise those ignored realities will haunt us for the rest of our life.

[Noor.92]

True Saman, facing the truth..that's what is called real bravery...!

[Coyote Poetry]

I believe some actions cannot be forgotten. My uncle molested my mother and she was sixteen. She was the last one left to help him. I didn't know till later what he did. She hated him and she took care of him. Powerful and worthwhile words shared my friend. I hope you have a safe and fun New year. I wish you a successful and happy New Year.
Coyote

[Noor.92]

Your mother's indeed a beautiful soul to care of the person who hurt her once. Such people are v.rare n precious.
Thank you for liking this piece, Coyote! Happy new year to you too..:-)

[Coyote Poetry]

I did enjoy and you are welcome my friend.