Falling in

It takes courage to fall in love, then why not after some efforts

Falling in love is just a basic thing which happens to all in adolescence or adulthood.

We tend to hurry and end up thinking that the one we are attracted to is our love, and sooner or later end up betrayed, with broken emotion or not with enough courage to love again. In better words I say, End up being not willing to love again.

beneath everything there is a reason which awaits so is behind falling in love. Some relations of love lasts until the end. however, some ends with the blink.

Fall in love with someone who chooses you just as confidently as you choose them. not so quickly, just with the flow. Commit to the person who lifts you up whenever things get rough, the person who fights to make things work when the reality of life gets difficult and discouraging.

Fall in love with someone who sees the wars within you and not only chooses to stay but chooses to stand by your side and help you fight them. Strive to find someone who cradles your dark, who embraces your light, someone who always wants to be your best when you yourself are not your best; someone who reminds you of every strong thing you are whenever you feel feeble.

Fall in love with someone who does not make you feel like you are hard to love. Give your heart to someone who does not call you weak for feeling so deeply, someone who adores the soft creature you are, and who fights to protect it in a hardened world.

Fall in love with someone who challenges you, who inspires you to think and feel. Fall in love with someone who ignites a wildness within you; someone who grows your mind just as much as they grow your heart.

Fall in love with someone who respects you for changing because they understand that it means you’re growing. Dedicate yourself to the person who stands in awe of how you bloom, how you flourish; someone who loves you not only for who you are but for who you have the potential to be.

Please, do not ever settle for less. Keep waiting. Keep learning about yourself, keep trying and fighting for the heart within your chest. Keep growing and nourishing your wants, keep discovering your needs. When the time is right, you are going to fall in love with someone who will appreciate everything you stand for, who will compliment you in ways you never imagined. When the time is right, the love you have always been worthy of will flower within your life, and you will finally, finally, understand why you had to wait so long.

It is not any security that even after all this you would find happiness, it's a step basically to feel the happiness of being you and not letting the other person deceive you or betray you. things like this just leave one broken or better to be said as not to be able to be own self again.

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