Dear Younger Self

" A letter to my younger self given solicited advice and wisdom"

Dear Younger Self,

Boys will be dicks because they can be

Men will be a******s because they have to be.. in order to get s**t done

Makeup wont make you feel pretty.. but a little mascara never hurt

Self pity will get you no where, Neither will Rage Let that s**t go

If you have to stay up late wondering where you man is he is usually up to no good…

If he hides his phone and his “cousin ” is calling he is most definitely up to no good..

But it doesn’t hurt to ask questions never assume anything. But always go with your gut..

If you have to track him down Step away a man will never make you feel so bad about yourself that have to hunt him down like a gazelle in the wilderness

Being Married with Children I can assure you there is no job security in the love department you can work hard and put in long hours but I can promise you there will be lay offs.

Its ok because once you work for yourself you will get  return investment and you wont be short changed.. There’s a retirement plan and full health benefits., All you have to do is find a mirror and a sticky note that says you are worthy and are loved..

Your heart will shatter into a million pieces and that’s ok too.. As long as you pick up the pieces you can find someone to hold the glue.. Heart break is sticky business and can require some gold to fix the broken glass..

Girls will always break people down, But women empower and praise.. The choice is yours..

Make more meaningful connections nothing ever good ever came out of talking about the weather.

Money doesn’t count for wealth your health does.. A poor man will count dollars, a rich man counts breathes.. A poor man will count his possessions and rich man will count his blessings..

Be open to change that’s how you grow. All Roses must die before they can be born again only to be more vibrant in scent and color.. Just don’t forget to water the seeds you have planted.

100 years isn’t a long time.. so waste it having fun

Most importantly do what you love with passion, let if set your soul on fire and let your tears of joy relinquish the flames into your salvation

Your occupation is ascending beam of light and that’s why you shine so damn bright!

Sincerely… Ms. Sunshine

Ps. Don’t forget to smile !