Successful Women In India

Success In India for Women is not only having good fame ,good position but winning the challenge in living happily in the society where women are not praised.Still they manage to keep themselves happy

Successful ;What is exactly being successful?

Once sitting in park ,while reading an article this question arose in my mind,What exactly we mean by being successful .Successful person is the one who is renowned or the who manages to keep herself happy in the struggle of life?;The person with a smiling face is successful or the person with huge asset but not happy is successful.?

We all are being educated to be successful in life , but no one defines what success is . When i was a child i used to believe that success is being rich ,success is being settled family but as i have grown i find the definition of success completely different.

I remember during our farewell in class 12th ,one of my science bio teacher named Pratibha told me ,"In life whether you become rich or not but should definitely become a good human being "and probably that the thing make people successful in their life and my interpretation of being successful got changed.

 Now if I talk to about , Women in India , i have come across many women who are successful ; some with monetary , some with family ,some with finding themselves. That's good the feminism is increasing in India because if i look few years back the women in India has the only future of cooking and taking care of family , there was no existence of their identity .Still there are many places where women is treated as the source of giving baby ,cooking and taking care of family.

Success is only what we feel happy about

Yesterday when i was in Park, i came across a women who sat next to me with her 9-10 years old girl. the girl was so fantasized with the children around that she asked her mother if she can buy badminton for her , so that she can also play with the children in the park or with her friends. Her mother with a smile on her face replied , "we will have that once you grow a little more older"and to my surprise her girl did not insisted one more time that she needs it .I have seen lots of children who at least insist twice or thrice or become stubborn or angry for the things they need but she then started playing with her skip with her friends.

 I started a little conversation with her and i could see her eyes filled with tears as she wants to say a lot but something was stopping her and I said 'Hello " she still managed to smile and say" Hello" to me .she was full of pain ,saying "I have lost everything in life ,My husband has left me with no reason .Being at one place we don't even talk to each other, though he is taking care of my daughter , spending on her fees and other needs but to me he is just an unknown person . Everyday we see each other but we don't talk , the only satisfaction in my life is , my daughter is getting good  education and her future is secure ,The day i will give him divorce he will send daughter to me and then her future will be ruined .I am just living for her , she is giving me strength to survive,"saying this she left ,taking her daughter .

I realised, how a mother's love is so intense , she doesn't even know how successful she is in managing everything even the circumstances are not in her favor .She was successful in keeping herself alive and giving her child a better future ,she was successful in keeping her own smile even when she is not getting anything from her husband .

In India many women have these type of issues are are scared to take any major step for the fear of loosing someone dear but it really doesn't mean that they are not successful . They are successful because they are still surviving ,they as successful because they don't stop even the circumstances and people don't favor them .They are successful in still keeping their surroundings with good vibrations . They are more strong than anyone else.