Time
is an unusual thing. It can
quicken or slow down a great amount, depending on our moods or the situations
we’re in. It can pass slowly when
we are in an awkward situation or when we are lacking things to do, but it can
also pass like a shooting star across the sky when you’re out enjoying the
simplicity of youth, or just in a pleasant mood. Time can also be gracious, giving us the luxury of having
our loved ones around for that much longer. It blesses us with the possibility of wondrous things,
allowing us to finish what needs to be finished and also allows us to enjoy the
world around us. It gives us the
opportunity to meet new people and to try new things. Time is the perfect opportunity to say hello to the ones you
love. It is the way we live, by
times of places to be and people to see.
It helps us to create memories with the ones we care the most about
doing the things we love the most.
Those memories are stowed away in the crevasses of our mind and are
sometimes kept there for eternity, all thanks to time. We embrace the time and love it as if
it were ours to control. Time,
however, is not ours to control, and can also be very cruel. It can quicken at all the wrong
moments, ranging from something as simple as the possible tardiness for school
or something as important as missing your flight out of the country. Time can eventually take away life
throughout the years, stealing away the ones we love without notice. Time lingers in moments of pain,
showing no mercy to your grieving state of mind. It invades into unwelcome arms like a poison that has no
antidote, no way to make it simply disappear. It is sometimes bitter and resentful, causing it to erode on
friendships and relationships, making them end with hurt or anger. It seems to enhance the feared goodbyes
of a relationship ending. Time is
also persistent, forcing us to go on with our lives, no matter how broken we
feel that we are. It steals away
memories of a loved one’s wrinkled hand taking yours to hold, or the warmth of
an embrace, or a first innocent kiss.
It does, however, spare the memories that most would like for time to
take along with it. We all are
aware of the fact that they are engraved within us forever, but we are hopeful
that one day, time will take away these painful things. The bitterness that escapes from a
supposed friend’s lips into our hearts, the sound of violent words that pass
through in heated arguments between a team and their coach, the sight of a soldier
in uniform leaving your arms, or even the feeling of separation that is caused
from the sight of the oak casket slowly being lowered into the earth, taking
the one we love with it. True,
time can be bitter and can hurt most beyond imagination. But it can also heal. It heals the wounds that it might have
created, and it can heal the heart that has shattered from pain. It brings along new experiences and
opportunities to help you move on from the painful experiences and opportunities
of before, and it helps you accept what needs to be accepted and allows you to
move forward. Yes, time is truly
an unusual thing.