It always takes two. Girls are just as responsible for the consequences of unsafe sex as guys are. If it is consensual, if it isn't rape, then it's on both of them. I understand if the guy up and leaves but let's be honest, not all guys are like that at all and there's just as much of a chance at the girl getting an abortion or dumping the kid with the father once it's born and things get difficult. I've seen it happen many times. The girls are NOT always victims and guys shouldn't have to take all the heat for teen pregnancies. Just my opinion. :)
Never lose faith in men. Yes, they all have their heart and mind down there, but some can act sensible too. Wait for you knight with shining Armour, as they say it ;)
See, I had this witty comment all ready to go, but then checked and saw that you're 15, and am glad you wrote that you were, and now I'm thinking, damn, I should really not post random comments like that on pages until I feel pretty sure the person is older. So let me thank you for that awareness, and also say, that although my comment would have seemed to confirm much of what you wrote here, that it would have been in jest, and so in no way authentically confirmed it, you follow? So, that being said, let me say that this is mostly true, if you do not play the game correctly. You see, a guy needs to push--he needs to find your boundaries, and doesn't realize why he is doing this, but he is actually trying to respect you. Yes, that's right. If you give up too soon, you are seen as having no boundaries, and are valued quite low--and he reasons, that was too easy, so she must not be valuable. And if months and months go by, and his attempts are all refuted, he will begin to move on, thinking, she is cold inside, affectionless. Therefore the truth is, as usual, found in balance. And once you have struck that balance, he will not want another, and will not only want sex. And you may find in time, that your libido is stronger than his. But, all of this is for a later time--right now you should be tasting only a little of it, and a lot of everything else life has to offer.
Posted 12 Years Ago
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12 Years Ago
excuse me for saying but IM A BAPTIST I was not rasied to be a s**t or a hoe and was raisded to wait.. read moreexcuse me for saying but IM A BAPTIST I was not rasied to be a s**t or a hoe and was raisded to wait until marriage for sex and if any guy is not wanting to respect that then he can leave because im not about to give up my thoughts for one guys dick
Girls your age usually write a piece like this from some bad experience they had in which they reali.. read moreGirls your age usually write a piece like this from some bad experience they had in which they realize they should have waited, and rushed in foolheartedly. So, good for you.
It always takes two. Girls are just as responsible for the consequences of unsafe sex as guys are. If it is consensual, if it isn't rape, then it's on both of them. I understand if the guy up and leaves but let's be honest, not all guys are like that at all and there's just as much of a chance at the girl getting an abortion or dumping the kid with the father once it's born and things get difficult. I've seen it happen many times. The girls are NOT always victims and guys shouldn't have to take all the heat for teen pregnancies. Just my opinion. :)
I'm sorry to hear that you might think of guys this way, but honestly, regardless of sex, people are people. There are good people, there are bad people. Sex doesn't separate us any more than race. I do see the point you are coming from though. The way you wrote this (sorry if I'm wrong) sounds like it would be a country song.
Posted 12 Years Ago
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12 Years Ago
i think it could be a country song if i could sing just the slightest might lol
i know where you are coming from, but always remember, only some guys are all about sex. When you get caught up in someone's web of lies, it's pretty easy to look outward and figure everyone is like that but not everyone is. You don't have to believe me but i, for example, think of sex as something special that two people who actually love each other should share, not someone that you just met for a night, then never call them again, that kind of stuff has never made sense to me. I know you wrote this out of angry, or someone deceived you, or whatever your reason is, so i won't point out any mistakes, but cheer up girl! You got your whole life ahead of you! :)
a good poem.. very true.. guys think its okay to play with girls and to mess up their minds and their lives.. but they rethink it all when he gets with a girl that he really loves and she finds out about his past... he cant change what has been done...every guy regrets those things he does sooner or later.... a very true write!! great job!!
-Chesney Chey(:
Great poem. Yup there are lots of guys who know what they are doing. Its all a game and they go for lots naive girls who dont have a clue their man is a player. There are good guys out there but they get over looked by the bad boys. Women want to tame the wrong men. Great poem
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