![]() A right call after the fallA Story by Joyram![]() A keen drama of love between a young couple, ultimately resulting in two marriages where the young woman's mother turns as the second bride in the second marriage.![]() It was well beyond midnight and I (Ram) was about to get into my second
phase of sleep. Exactly at that time, I heard a big noise from our compound
gate. I could immediately sense something was wrong. I opened the window of our
bedroom and flashed my cell phone. Apparently something heavy had fallen on our
gate that caused such loud noise. I put on the corridor light and the street
lights were also on. I tried to open the steel gate but could not, as something
behind me got stuck with the gate. I quickly climbed the adjacent compound wall
and looked down below the gate. To my surprise, a man had fallen flat right on
the gate. In the meantime my wife, Seetha, too woke up, hearing the unusual sounds.
We pushed the gate hard and moved that fallen stranger a bit forward so that we
could open the gate wider and go outside the gate. The man seemed to be young,
wearing good attire. He was moaning and breathing heavily, apparently drunk. I
told my wife “I shall call the police” to which she said, “Let us first help
him to sit up and talk”. Then we two helped him to get up but he seemed to be
out of control. We held him tight and brought him slowly inside our corridor
and made him sit on the bench but he slipped on the floor. He was in an
inebriated condition. Seetha brought some water and splashed it on his face.
Shrugging, the man slowly opened his eyes which were sunk deep, roaming here
and there wildly. He started looking around with a sense of embarrassment and
confusion. I slowly pulled him and made him sit on the bench and made him sip
some water. The man told in an indelible voice “Where am I? Who are you
people?” I told him “Don’t worry. You are in a safe place. You have drunk too
much, it seems.” He said, “Thank you thank you thank you people”. He moaned “I
lost my route to the parking place where my car was parked”. With that, we
could make out what had happened further. He lied with closed eyes for about
half an hour. In the meantime, we two held a brief discussion as to whether to
entertain that man inside our house or let him stay outside. Good sense
prevailed on us and we decided to let him in. Just then, he opened his eyes
garbling “Sir, may I get some hot tea”. Seetha instantly went to the kitchen,
prepared hot tea, and offered him. Though he could not hold the cup tight, he
managed and drank it, his hands trembling a little. Soon he gained
consciousness and seemed to have gained confidence as well. He thanked both of
us. Going by the location as described by him, his car was parked about one km
away from my place. We came to know that he drank four pegs of liquor that
night which was abnormal for his occasional two-peg drinking. When he started
to walk towards the parking area he must have missed the direction and eventually
landed in front of our gate. Later I offered to drop him at the car parking in my vehicle. But he said
that he had to travel 15km to reach his home. Since the man spoke politely and
appeared gentle, I suggested to my wife that we might retain him at our house
for that night and would leave him the next morning. She agreed and I asked the
man to stay back at hour home that night, to which the man gladly agreed with a
big relief on his face. Seetha asked him whether he would like to eat something
for which he thankfully accepted. She made and served him hot dosa (a
traditional south Indian edible) which he relished with satisfaction. We took a
calculated risk of sheltering a stranger in our house, hoping nothing untoward
would happen. I took him to the bedroom and made him lie on the cot and showed
him the washroom. The next day morning I went into the bedroom and found him still sleeping.
When my wife was making tea, I could hear a thudding that suggested that the
man must have gotten up from the bed. I went inside and offered him a new
toothbrush along with toothpaste. He gesticulated with folded his hands. When
he came out of the bedroom, we three had hot tea. He enjoyed every sip of it,
as could be seen from his action. He told us his name was Vasanth and begged us to forgive him for vomiting
in our bathroom the previous night. He added, rather quickly that he had
cleaned it up. I later found the bathroom spick and span. Sure, the man had
cleaned up the mess, using the sanitizer and broom, immediately after he woke
up. He thanked us emotionally, saying that we were like god-sent people who saved him. I
told him to have breakfast, which he politely turned down, saying that he had
already troubled us enough. When I took out my vehicle and asked him to get in,
he suddenly burst out and cried emotionally. I managed to bring him inside the
house and asked him to relax. Then we offered him hot idlis with sambar and
chutney which he gleefully savored with us. He thanked us for the tasty
breakfast when my wife offered a hot brewing filter coffee. He began to drink
it slowly with a lot of relieved look, as though he was sipping drops of
nectar. It was then; that he started to narrate his life story as below: “Vansant hailed from a decent family which lived in Bangalore. After
graduating in engineering, he studied MS. After securing an MS degree he did
not like to stay in the US but preferred to live in India. He joined a private
company in Bangalore, a couple of years ago. Later, on the grounds of better
prospects, he got his new employment at a Chennai-based MNC, a year ago. Since
then, he had been staying in Chennai in a bachelor’s accommodation. He was
attracted by one of his office colleagues, Priya. Somehow, in a short time, the
two were mesmerized into falling in love with each other. Priya was a graduate
with a diploma in software engineering. Her father was working as a branch
manager in a private company, earning lucratively. Vasanth’s father was working
as a Professor in Economics in a reputed college in Bangalore and like Priya’s
mother, his mother was a homemaker too. Vasanth liked Priya, not only for her
good looks but for her openness, broad mind, and helping tendency. Priya
admired Vasanth’s gentle manners, witty chats, and compassionate heart. Picking
up momentum, the two, started to go out for movies, concerts, beaches, etc.
Engulfed by the fire of love and lust, they went to Mahabalipuram (a beach of
historical heritage, near Chennai), stayed in resorts, and had the great fun of
romantic delight. During these utter enjoyment days, they talked about many
things except marriage. One day, on a cool evening, they were enjoying the
Mahabalipuram beach. The following conversation popped up between them: Vasanth: Priya, I am not only thrilled talking and chatting with you but
derive good satisfaction and relief out of it. I want to ask you one
thing. Priya: Tell Vasanth, I have a gut feeling about what you would ask. Vasanth: Is it so? Tell me, dear, what is in my mind? Priya: Marriage; about our becoming bride and bride groom. Getting engaged;
go through the rituals of pre-marriage and post-marriage; Shake everyone’s
hands attending our wedding; Known or unknown, smile at everyone at the venue;
pose for film-shoot like photos and videos; go out for honeymoon for a few
days; enter your home, as a daughter in law to your parents, mold myself
according to their expectations, including yours too, announce the news of my
conceiving in the next five-six months, get over the rituals during the fifth
and 7th month of my pregnancy, deliver the baby at my parent's
place, stay put there for a few months post-delivery and come back to your
house and start living in the drudgery of married life, forever, what else
Vasanth? Vasanth (carried away by Priya’s smart guess and her flawless style of
expression): Hats off to you, Priya; you have exactly read my mind; Everything
you said is fine but your opinion is that post-marriage would be drudgery is
not only acceptable but hurts me as well. Will not marriage be the culmination
of our love bondage? Priya: Vasanth, I appreciate your sentiments and wishes. I too had such
fascinating thoughts in my mind, till a few years ago. But, something happened
in my life that changed my notion about marriage. My father and mother got divorced
two years back, all of a sudden. Being their only daughter, who graduated
just then, had to undergo the unexpected shock and turmoil. I lost myself in a
world of utter gloom and dejection. Now, I am staying with my mother. I can
tell you, how depressed she feels about losing her husband to another woman,
after 21 years of married life. Vasanth: Priya, really I am shocked and sorry to hear about that and I
sincerely empathize with you. I can imagine the plight you and your mother are
in. My prayers are for the welfare of both of you. But still, Priya, all
marriages don’t end up in divorce. Your parent’s case is an exception. If we
have to go by statistics, the divorce rate is something like one percent in our
country. Please, don’t get carried away by an isolated unfortunate incident in
your family. Priya: Vasanth, whatever you may say, my mind dwells far away from the
concept of marriage. At this point in time, I believe firmly in a live-in
relationship scenario, wherein we continue to live together without any social
contractual binding and clutches imposed by arranged marriage. Vasanth, while consoling and reassuring, persuaded her to reconsider her
stance but Priya appeared unshakable and stood to her firm ground. Unable to reconcile himself with Priya’s decision, Vasanth became jittery
and vacillating. It resulted in the two not meeting each other often, as they
used to. Without any idea about their son’s love affair, Vasanth’s parents were
following him up regularly, seeking his nod for registering his horoscope on
the matrimonial websites. He did not have the guts to tell his parents about
Priya due to the stubborn dislike she had for marriage. He gave some or the
other excuse and reason and dissuaded them from further action with regard to
his marriage. To overcome the pressure and worry, he resorted to boozing now
and then. ” That’s how I ended up here, literally flat on your doorsteps“, Vasanth
completed his story. I listened to his interesting and intense story, attentively. I told him
“Vasanth, for the time being, don’t think of the past now. Right now, you are
stable. Just get into your routine. Since you two have not parted ways, keep in
touch with Priya. Don’t show either your disgruntlement or anguish to her. We
will see what best can be done in the course of time. I don’t have any busy
schedules and commitments; I am ready to offer my services to you in this
regard. Now cheer up, I will leave you at the parking place. “ Vasanth looked a lot relieved after hearing my soothing words of comfort.
After all, he was undergoing a mental boil down and it was natural for any man
of his circumstances to feel dejected when things, seemingly enjoyable, went
topsy-turvy. He got into my car and was thankfully his car’s key in his pocket safely.
When I dropped him off, he got into his car, thanked me again, and said he
would be in touch with me. He told me “Ram Sir, I am indebted to you” Although the conversation at the beach created an invisible veil between
Vasanth and Priya, Vansant’s love for the girl was intense and dedicated, so
much so, that he would not marry any other woman in his life. Priya too had a
similar urge to live with Vasanth and could not afford to lose him. Due to the
deep-rooted love, the two somehow managed to hold on to their association,
though with more distance than closeness. The two met very rarely and such
short meetings were spent more in silence. Vasanth found in me a shoulder to cry his. He used to visit my house now
and then and spend hours together. He liked my wife’s cooking. Whenever he
visited us, he brought something or the other, fruits, sweets, and edibles. He
joined us for lunch and occasionally, dinner too before he returned. On our
wedding days and birthdays, he bought us nice gifts. I could read from his
behavior that he considered us his best well-wisher on earth. On one such occasion, we had the following conversation: Me (with a deliberate tone of sarcasm): Vasanth, what is happening to your
subdued romantic association with Priya? Vasanth: Ram Uncle, (since one month he switched over from Sir to uncle)
what to tell. It is like a diehard situation for both of us. We are close yet
so far. We have mutual love and care yet keep away from meeting each other. Me: Oh, that sounds both good and bad. I tell you one thing Vasanth. Now
take it from me, Priya is yours for all reasons and all seasons. You both have
soulful attachments for each other. It is just a question of time before you
two hold your hands together. Vasanth: Thanks, uncle. I believe strongly in your words Me: You tell me one thing Vasanth, what is going on with her mother? Has
she come to terms with the reality? Vasanth: It is a 50:50 situation, I believe. But there is an interesting
development. Priya tells that a gentleman, Mukund, her mother’s college mate,
keeps visiting their house once or twice a month. He was her mother’s senior in
her college and they both sang together at the college programs on a couple of
occasions. Me: Oh, quite interesting Vasanth. I think you should update me on this aspect
frequently. Vasanth: Sure uncle, I will let you know After a month, Vasanth shared more news about Priya’s mother. Vasanth: Ram uncle, it seems the man has stepped up his frequency and keeps visiting her
mother, once a week and on a few occasions, they went out together. Me: Ah, good going. Now I want you to introduce me to Priya and her mother
if you don’t feel otherwise. Can you do that? Vasanth: Why not uncle, you are my best well-wisher. I will first bring
Priya here and later we can meet her mother. As assured, Vasanth brought Priya on a Saturday afternoon. I was glad to
meet Priya, who not only looked handsome and smart but sounded friendly with me
and my wife. Since Vasanth had already appraised her about me and my wife, she
found it relatively easier to speak her mind. Priya: Uncle, my mother’s name is Chithra, aged 48 years. She is in love
with her ex-college mate and now her boyfriend, Mukund. He is 49 and
reciprocates my mother’s love. Mukund was in the US for 20 years, returned to
India about six months ago, and is into some software business. For reasons
best known to him, Mukund did not marry. The two got connected through social
media five months, a few months ago and now they are closer. Me: Thanks Priya for the vital information on your personal front. Let me
make it clear at this stage, that I am a well-wisher of both of you. Priya: Thank you uncle, but Vasanth has already apprised you about our
association and my philosophy about living together. Me: I know that Priya. You are absolutely right from your perspective. Let
us hope that time will be friendly for both of you. Another month passed by. Vasanth and Priya visited us again. Seetha, my
wife, made special lunch which the two nourished and liked. Priya somehow got
on nice terms with Seetha. The two spent hours together. Priya spoke in detail
about her mother and her boyfriend. Priya invited me and Seetha to her house,
which we gladly accepted. On a sunny Sunday morning, we went to Priya’s house. A warm welcome
extended by her mother Chitra, surprised us pleasantly. While I and Priyanka
were having a general chat on various matters, Seetha and her mother conferred
with each other in the kitchen. Later, a variety of lunch greeted us. We enjoyed
it thoroughly and took leave of them after 3 PM. On the way back home, Seetha
shared certain things about Chithra. It seemed her boyfriend Mukund was willing
to marry her, although Chithra did not like the idea after the debacle in her
first marriage. That tip gave me a spark and I decided to ignite Chithra to
marry Mukund. Chitra and I had occasional telephone conversations now and then. Once I
asked Chithra “Chithra Ji, would it be a bad idea to conduct the marriage of
Priya and Vasanth” She was taken off guard by my most unexpected question.
However, she managed to quickly come to her senses and told me “No, not at all.
In fact, it would be nice if the two got married. But, Priya has formed her own
opinion after the setback in my marriage.” I told her “will you permit me to
say something, rather sensitive? She said “Absolutely, please go ahead”. I told
her “Why don’t you and Mukund get married? Chitra said,” Oh, how it could be
when I am a 48-year-old mother of a daughter, whose marriage itself is hanging
loosely.” I told “Listen, Chithra Ji, we always walk with the time but time
does not walk the way we want it. You lived two decades of married life but
something went wrong and you are now in this predicament.” Chithra: Yes Ram Ji, I agree with you Me: “You please, tell Priya that you and Mukund have decided to marry and
after that, it would be the turn of Priya to marry Vasanth. I am sure you
will tell her that after all, marriage is a symbolic act of togetherness from
the point of society, more so when Vasanth wants it to be conducted that way” Chithra: Yes Ram Sir, after talking to Mukund, I will do the needful. Me: Every marriage doesn’t go haywire and most of the marriages remain
intact out of which many are successful. Instead of having a live-in
relationship that will be more like a dubious, uncertain, and unsecured
relationship, Priya should marry Vasanth and realize their dream of living
together. That way both of them will be reassuring themselves of their future. Chithra: Your suggestion impresses me, Ram Ji. I shall interact with Mukund
and then with Priya. Thanks for your care and concern for us. After about a month’s time, Priya and Vasanth came to our house with
sweets. Priya with a bright face told, “Uncle and aunty, my mother is going to
get marry Mukund.” We two felt glad and relieved over the positive
developments. I told Priya “If you are so happy that your mother is getting
married, how happy your mother would be to see both of you getting married? Priay “Yes uncle, I think so” After a few weeks, Chithra telephoned us and informed us that she was
getting married to Mukund in a temple complex, the succeeding month with a
minimum gathering of people. I suggested to her “Chitra Ji, hearty
congratulations, how novel and delightful it would be if your marriage and your
daughter’s marriage happen the same day.” That must have startled Chitra Ji.
She told that she never could think from that angle and was excited over my
idea. He assured me that she would discuss my novel suggestion with Mukund and
Priya and come back to me. Within a week’s time Chitra called me “Ram, your
suggestion is getting materialized. Yes, both the mother and daughter are going
to get married on the same day, in the same venue. Mukund and Priya visited us
again, that time they bought one kg of sweets, half on their behalf and half on
Chitra’s mother. I ate as much, seethe as less, balance distributed to the
neighborhood. One day, I got a call from an unknown number. I wanted to ignore it but
intuition prompted me to respond. The caller spoke, rather in a threatening
voice but it had some touch of familiarity. “I understand that you are a too
smart man indulging in uniting these two couples. What vested interest do you
have in it?” I had a gut feeling that the caller must be Chitra’s ex-husband
and it proved to be true. He told me “It was not me who divorced her but she
only divorced me.” I asked “why should she do that? He said “I had been
friendly with my private secretary at the office. My wife was envious and jealous
of our association.” I asked him “How could your wife know that you are
friendly with your office colleague,” He told “My secretary used to accompany
me to many outstations, where I had important meetings and business deals to
attend. Once, we two were out of the station on one such business mission and
were staying in a hotel. My wife called my number from some other phone
and unfortunately, my secretary answered it. That provoked Chitra to verify our
relationship. She got convinced that I was having an extramarital relationship
with my secretary. Then she took the extreme step of divorcing me. Now, I will
not allow these two marriages to happen. I do not want my wife to be another
man’s wife. Nor do I want Priya to be a victim to your ordinary chela (disciple)”.
Saying these, that man put down the phone. Later I came to know that Chitra’s
ex-husband Surendar only spoke to me. Now let me tell you something that gives
a new twist to this story. It was an incredible coincidence that he was
my college mate, a villain of sorts. Yes, we studied in the engineering college
together. We two used to participate in many games and competitions. In
both categories, somehow I used to be ahead of him, almost in every discipline.
Be it cricket, chess, carom, shuttle badminton or essay, poetry, and singing.
He hated me openly for my supremacy over him. I got plenty of prizes in all
these events but I never used to boast about myself and remained rooted to the
ground always. Surendar carried a grudge against me for overpowering him in
every completion. I did not do it deliberately but it so happened. There were
times when I lost sometimes in certain competitions. But even in losing, I was
the winner against him due to my edge over his ranking. On the final day in
college, he told me without mincing words “Ram, don’t think that you are the
jack of everything. Now let us see who is going to win the career and life
game.” I could not believe that destiny was so immaculate and clinical in its
executions. When I almost erased Surendar from my memory, he was still carrying
the ill feelings for me for events that happened 30 years ago. I did not reveal
anything about this telephonic conversation to any of the trio involved. After a few days, Chitra called me “Ram, surprisingly Surendar, after a gap
of almost one year, called me yesterday and proposed our reunion. He said that
he did not marry his private secretary and wanted to live with Chitra again. He
told that his secretary was more eyeing his wealth than his welfare. When I told
him I was in love with Mukund, he said ‘Let him be your boyfriend, I have no
objection but don’t marry him when I am ready to come back to you.” I told her
“Oh, it is strange as well as interesting. Don’t take any hasty decisions. Take
your own time. I suggest you think about it seriously.” I called Vasanth and asked him whether he could ascertain the present
status of Surendar, both on the personal and career front, and update me. I
referred Surendar’s phone call to Chitra. He said ‘Sure Ram uncle. Priya
told me about this. I will come back to you shortly” In the next ten days, Vasanth updated me about Surendar “He did not marry
his private secretary but the two are in a live-in relationship. She had
stopped working as a private secretary for him. But Surendar does not seem to
be quite happy with her due to her associations with her other boyfriends.
Regularly, she goes to parties alone and returns home well beyond midnight
Maybe that is why he wants to come back to Chitra aunty. As regards who filed the
case for divorce, it was Surendar who initiated the legal suit and not Chitra
aunty”. In the next one week, swift developments took place. Chitra conferred with
Mukund about the intention of her ex-husband. Mukund felt shocked and
disappointed and told Chitra “I have never married to date and was excited
about getting married to you and leading a new life for a couple of decades in
your wonderful company. I could never imagine this kind of development when he
divorced you two years ago. But still, if you are really willing to welcome
Surendra back to your fold, please go ahead. After all, a known devil is better
than an unknown angel.” When Chitra discussed the matter with Priya she told “Mother, if you
ask my opinion, I would never like you to live with him again, having seen his
ungrateful act, after living with you for two long decades and set a wrong
precedence in our family”. Chitra, on her part, thought “Once he has
betrayed me and disconnected with me, how can I trust him again? What is the
guarantee that he would not indulge in such behavior of infidelity? Once a
major rift is caused between life partners, it will remain as a loophole,
however best one may try to bridge the gap. When Priya is married, I will be
left all alone. Mukund is a nice man and I know him since my college
day. He has not changed much even after staying in the US for a long time. His
yearning for a married life looks to be genuine. Having lived in the US, he
must have seen and enjoyed a material life, of world-class, albeit marriage. So
what is the harm in my marrying him?” Chitra telephoned Surendar and clarified in unequivocal terms that she did
not like to live with him anymore and would go ahead with her proposed marriage
with Surendra. Surendar, though not shocked at this, told Chitra that she was
making a big mistake. He told her “At least see to it that Priya doesn’t become
a victim of that ordinary fellow Vasanth. There will be bountiful rich young
men who would like to hold her hands.” Chitra snapped the conversation “Priya
knows better” Chitra arranged wedding cards printed with the details of
the two marrying couples. It was boldly printed beneath the invitation that the
chief guests for the marriages would be Mrs& Mr.Ram. I felt a bit
embarrassed seeing such publicity for me. But I did not mind because it was
their choice and satisfaction. The marriages were held as planned with a limited gathering. To give an
interesting sort of amusement, Vasanth tied the nuptial knot on Priya followed
by the same act by Mukund on Chitra. Priya quipped “Ram uncle, I could say to
my people that I got married before my mother” I laughed loudly and appreciated
and admired his sense of smart humor in Priya. I met Mukund for the first time who appeared to be decent and socializing.
He told me that “It sounds exciting and fantastic to be wedded at this age on
this stage. We hope to marry again in another 10 years’ time.” I was a bit
startled at that statement. Mukund clarified with a mischievous smile “Ram, I
meant my Sashtiyapthapurthi (a symbolic repeat of tying the nuptial knot by the
husband on his wife’s neck when he turns sixty years). I could not control my
laugh. Everyone around too enjoyed the humor, including Chitra, Vasanth, and
Priya. A sumptuous lunch was served after the marriage ceremony. When the lunch
was nearing completion, Surendar appeared on the scene from nowhere and caught
the attention of everyone. He waited till the lunch was completed. Chitra,
although taken by surprise and shock, requested him to partake in the lunch.
But he said, “I am here not for eating but for greeting the couples.” I met
Surendra’s eyes, maybe after three decades. He tried to smile at me but could
not succeed. Later he wished the couples with flower bouquets. He told Chitra “
The house is already in your name and it will continue to remain so. Besides, I
shall transfer two grounds (measuring 4800 square feet) of the open plot near
Tambaram in the name of Priya, as my gift. He sought a five minutes appointment
with Chitra and me. He confessed to us that he committed a blunder in divorcing
Chitra. His second marriage was not going through, the way he expected, he
told. He told me that he had a dream, a few days ago in which he underwent
untold misery of torture and torment for his past acts, including the grudge he
carried against me for decades together. He told me “Ram, I am sad on certain
counts but happy to have met you again. If you will not mind, I would like to
have your friendship.” I said “Why not Surendar, by all means. With these two marriages,
there will not be any more competition between us in the future.” Unable to accept Priya’s decision, Vasanth became jittery and vacillating.
The two did not meet each other often, as they used to. Without knowing about
his love affair, his parents were following him up regularly seeking his nod
for registering his horoscope on the matrimonial websites. He did not have the
guts to tell his parents about Priya due to the stubborn dislike she had for
marriage. So, he gave some or the other reason to his parents and dissuaded
them from further action with regard to his marriage. Feeling like, caught
between the devil and the deep sea, Vasanth lost his composure and resorted to
heavy boozing in a bar the night before dragging himself to me. “ I listened to his story very attentively. It was both interesting and
intense. I told him “Vasanth, don’t think of the past now. Right now you are
stable. Just get into your routine. Since you two have not parted ways, keep in
touch with Priya. Don’t show your anger and anguish to her. We shall see what
best can be done in the course of time. Since I don’t have any busy schedules
and commitments, I am ready to offer my services to you in this
regard. Now cheer up, let us savor the hot breakfast and I will leave you at
the parking place. “ Vasanth felt a lot relieved after hearing my soothing words of comfort.
After all, he was undergoing a mental boil down and it was natural for any man
of his circumstances to feel dejected when things, seemingly enjoyable, went topsy-turvy.
Vasanth relished the hot Pongal sprinkled with ghee (a typical south Indian
dish made with rice, one variety of pulses mixed in pepper and salt). It was
delicious with the coconut chutney (gravy made of coconut, pulse, green
chilly). With a cup of brewing hot coffee, Vasanth completed a fine breakfast
and heaped a shower of praise on my wife for the delicious dishes. Later I
dropped him at the parking place. Thankfully he kept the car key in his pocket
safely. He got into the car, thanked me again, and said he would be in touch
with me. He told me “Ram Sir, your timely help and goodwill gestures of
adorable hospitality and offering your valuable services of counsel have made
me indebted to you for lifelong.” Although the conversation at the beach created an invisible rift between
Vasanth and Priya, Vansant’s love for the girl was so intense and dedicated
that he would not marry any other woman in his lifetime. Priya too had a
similar urge to live with Vasanth and could not afford to lose him. Due to the
deep-rooted love, the two somehow managed to hold on to their association,
though with more distance than closeness. The two met very rarely that too for
a meeting of less than an hour. Vasanth found in me a shoulder to cry his feelings. He used to visit my
house now and then and spend hours together. He liked the cooking by my wife.
Whenever he visited us, he brought something or the other, fruits, sweets, and
other edibles. During his visits, he invariably joined us for lunch and on many
occasions had dinner also before going back to his place. On special occasions
like our wedding day or birthday, he used to bring nice gifts. I could read
from his behavior that he considered me his best well-wisher on earth. On one
such occasion, we had the following conversation: Me (with a deliberate tone of sarcasm): Vasanth, what is happening to your
subdued romantic association with Priya? Vasanth: Ram Uncle, (since one month he switched over from Sir to uncle)
what to tell. It is like a diehard situation for both of us. We are close yet
so far. We have mutual love and care yet keep away from meeting each other. Me: Oh, that sounds both good and bad. I tell you one thing Vasanth. Now
take it from me, Priya is yours for all reasons and all seasons. You both have
soulful attachments for each other. It is just the question of time, how long
the time will take to romp you in together. Vasanth: Thanks, uncle. I believe strongly in your words Me: You tell me one thing Vasanth, what is going on with her mother? Has
she come to terms with the reality? Vasanth: It is a 50:50 situation, I believe. But there is an interesting
development. It seems that a gentleman, Mukund, Priya’s mother’s college mate,
keeps visiting their house once or twice a month. He was her mother’s senior in
her college and they both sang together for college programs on a couple of
occasions. Me: Oh, quite delightful Vasanth. I think you should update me on this
aspect frequently. Vasanth: Sure uncle, I will let you know After a month, Vasanth shared more news about Priya’s mother. Vasanth: Ram uncle, it seems the man has stepped up his frequency and keeps
visiting her mother once a week, and on a few occasions they went out together.
Me: Well done by them. Now I want you to introduce me to Priya and her
mother if you don’t feel otherwise. Can you do that? Vasanth: Why not uncle, you are my best well-wisher. I will first bring
Priya here and later we may meet her mother. As assured, Vasanth brought Priya on a Saturday afternoon. I was glad to
meet Priya who not only looked handsome and smart but sounded friendly with me
and my wife. Since Vasanth had already appraised her about me and my wife, she
found it easy to speak her mind. Priya: Uncle, my mother’s name is Chithra, aged 46 years. She is in love
with her ex-college mate and now her boyfriend, Mukund. He is 49 and
reciprocates my mother’s love. Mukund, who was in the US for almost 20 years,
returned to India about six months back and is into some business. For reasons
best known to him, Mukund did not marry. The two got in touch through social
media for five months and now they seem to be closer. Me: Thanks Priya for the vital information on your personal front. Let me
make it clear at this stage that I am a well-wisher of both of you. Priya: Thank you uncle, but Vasanth has already apprised you about our
association and my philosophy. Me: I know that Priya. You are absolutely right from your perspective. Let
us hope that time will be friendly for both of you. Another month passed. Vasanth and Priya visited us. They had lunch. Priya
somehow got on nice terms with Seetha. The two spent hours together. Priya
spoke in detail about her mother and her boyfriend. That day Priya invited me
and Seetha to her house. We accepted her invitation and visited her house on a Sunday morning. We
were well received by Priyanka and her mother, Chithra. While I and Priyanka
were having a general chat on various matters, Seetha and her mother conferred
with each other in the kitchen. Later a variety of lunches awaited us there. We
enjoyed the lunch and took leave of them after 3 PM. On the way back home,
Seetha shared certain things about Chithra. It seemed her boyfriend Mukund was
willing to marry her although Chithra did not like the idea after the debacle
in her marriage. That tip gave me a spark and I decided to ignite Chithra to
marry Mukund. Chitra and I had occasional telephone conversations now and then. Once I
asked Chithra “Chithra Ji, whether it would a bad idea to conduct the marriage
of Priya and Vasanth” She was taken off guard by my most unexpected question.
However, she managed to quickly come to her senses and told me “No, not at all.
In fact, it would be nice if the two got married. But Priya has formed her own
opinion after the setback in my marriage.” Then I told her “will you permit me
to say one thing, very sensitive, here? She said “Absolutely”. I told her “Why
don’t you and Mukund get married? Chithra said,” Oh, how it could be when I am
a 46-year-old mother of a daughter, whose marriage itself is in a dilemma.” I
told her “Listen, Chithra Ji, we always walk with the time but time does not
walk the way we want it. You had a two-decade married life but something went
wrong and you are now in this predicament.” Chithra: Yes Ram Ji, I agree with you Me: “You please tell Priya that you and Mukund have decided to marry and
after that, it would be the turn of Priya to marry Vasanth. I am sure you
will tell her that after all marriage is a symbolic act of togetherness from
the point of society” Chithra: Yes Ram Sir Me: Every marriage is not going astray and in fact most marriages are
successful. Instead of having a live-in relationship and having a dubious,
uncertain, and unsecured relationship, Priya should marry Vasanth and realize
their dream of living together. You tell her “When I myself am getting married
again what is the problem for you Priya? Chithra: Your suggestion impresses me Ram Ji. I shall interact with Mukund
and then with Priya. Thanks for your care and concern for us. After about a month’s time, Priya and Vasanth came to our house with
sweets. Priya with a bright face told, “Uncle and aunty, my mother is going to
get married to Mukund.” We two felt very glad over the fast developments. I
told Priya “If you are so happy that your mother is getting married, how happy
your mother would be to see both of you getting married? Priay “Yes uncle, I think so” After a month, Chithra telephoned and informed us that she was getting
married to Mukund in a temple next month with a minimum gathering of about 50
invitees including us. I suggested to her “Chitra Ji, hearty congratulations,
how novel and delightful it would be if your marriage and your daughter’s
marriage happen the same day.” That must have startled Chitra Ji. She told that
she never could think from that angle and was excited over my idea. He assured
me that she would discuss my novel suggestion with Mukund and Priya and come
back to me. Within a week’s time Chitra called me “Ram, your suggestion is
getting materialized. Yes, both the mother and daughter are going to get
married on the same day. Instead of the earlier fixed date, the marriage would
be held in two months’ time. Mukund and Priya visited us again, that time they
bought one kg of sweets, half on their behalf and half on Chitra’s mother. Another month passed. One day, I got a call from an unknown number. I
wanted to ignore it but intuition prompted me to respond. The caller spoke,
rather in a threatening voice but it had some touch of familiarity. “I
understand that you are a too smart man indulging in uniting these two couples.
What vested interest do you have in it?” I had a gut feeling that the caller
must be Chitra’s ex-husband and it proved to be true. He told me “It was not me
who divorced her but she only divorced me.” I asked “why should she do that? He
said “I had been friendly with my private secretary at the office. My wife was
envious and jealous of our association.” I asked him “How could your wife know
that you are friendly with your office colleague,” He told “My secretary used
to accompany me to many outstations, where I had important meetings and
business deals to attend. Once, we two were out of the station on one such
business mission and were staying in a hotel. My wife called my number
from some other phone and unfortunately, my secretary answered it. That
provoked Chitra to verify our relationship. She got convinced that I was having
an extramarital relationship with my secretary. Then she took the extreme step
of divorcing me. Now, I will not allow these two marriages to happen. I do not
want my wife to be another man’s wife. Nor do I want Priya to be a victim to
your ordinary chela (disciple)”. Saying these, that man put down the phone.
Later I came to know that Chitra’s ex-husband Surendar only spoke to me. Now
let me tell you something that gives a new twist to this story. It was an
incredible coincidence that he was my college mate, a villain of sorts. Yes, we
studied in the engineering college together. We two used to participate in many
games and competitions. In both categories, somehow I used to be ahead of
him, almost in every discipline. Be it cricket, chess, carom, shuttle badminton
or essay, poetry, and singing. He hated me openly for my supremacy over him. I
got plenty of prizes in all these events but I never used to boast about myself
and remained rooted to the ground always. Surendar carried a grudge against me
for overpowering him in every completion. I did not do it deliberately but it
so happened. There were times when I lost sometimes in certain competitions.
But even in losing, I was the winner against him due to my edge over his
ranking. On the final day in college, he told me without mincing words “Ram,
don’t think that you are the jack of everything. Now let us see who is going to
win the career and life game.” I could not believe that destiny was so immaculate and clinical in its
executions. When I almost erased Surendar from my memory, he was still carrying
the ill feelings for me for events that happened 30 years ago. I did not reveal
anything about this telephonic conversation to any of the trio involved. After a few days, Chitra called me “Ram, surprisingly Surendar, after a gap
of almost one year, called me yesterday and proposed our reunion. He said that
he did not marry his private secretary and wanted to live with Chitra again. He
told that his secretary was more eyeing his wealth than his welfare. When I
told him that I was in love with Mukund, he said ‘Let him be your boyfriend, I
have no objection but don’t marry him when I am ready to come back to you.” I
told her “Oh, it is strange as well as interesting. Don’t take any hasty
decisions. Take your own time. I suggest you think about it seriously.” I called Vasanth and asked him whether he could ascertain the present
status of Surendar, both on the personal and career front, and update me. I
referred Surendar’s phone call to Chitra. He said ‘Sure Ram uncle. Priya
told me about this. I will come back to you shortly” In the next ten days, Vasanth updated me about Surendar “He did not marry
his private secretary but the two are in a live-in relationship. She had
stopped working as a private secretary for him. But Surendar does not seem to
be quite happy with her due to her associations with her other boyfriends.
Regularly, she goes to parties alone and returns home well beyond midnight
Maybe that is why he wants to come back to Chitra aunty. As regards who filed
the case for divorce, it was Surendar who initiated the legal suit and not
Chitra aunty”. In the next one week, swift developments took place. Chitra conferred with
Mukund about the intention of her ex-husband. Mukund felt shocked and
disappointed and told Chitra “I have never married to date and was excited
about getting married to you and leading a new life for a couple of decades in
your wonderful company. I could never imagine this kind of development when he
divorced you two years ago. But still, if you are really willing to welcome
Surendra back to your fold, please go ahead. After all, a known devil is better
than an unknown angel.” When Chitra discussed the matter with Priya she told “Mother, if you
ask my opinion, I would never like you to live with him again, having seen his
ungrateful act, after living with you for two long decades and set a wrong
precedence in our family”. Chitra, on her part, thought “Once he has
betrayed me and disconnected with me, how can I trust him again? What is the
guarantee that he would not indulge in such behavior of infidelity? Once a
major rift is caused between life partners, it will remain as a loophole,
however best one may try to bridge the gap. When Priya is married, I will be
left all alone. Mukund is a nice man and I know him since my college
day. He has not changed much even after staying in the US for a long time. His
yearning for a married life looks to be genuine. Having lived in the US he must
have seen and enjoyed the material life of world-class, albeit marriage. So
what is the harm in my marrying him?” Chitra telephoned Surendar and clarified in unequivocal terms that she did
not like to live with him anymore and would go ahead with her proposed marriage
with Surendra. Surendar, though not shocked at this, told Chitra that she was
making a big mistake. He told her “At least see to it that Priya doesn’t become
a victim of that ordinary fellow Vasanth. There will be bountiful rich young
men who would like to hold her hands.” Chitra snapped the conversation “Priya
knows better” Chitra arranged wedding cards printed with the details of
the two marrying couples. It was boldly printed beneath the invitation that the
chief guests for the marriages would be Mrs& Mr.Ram. I felt a bit
embarrassed seeing such publicity for me. But I did not mind because it was
their choice and satisfaction. The marriages were held as planned with a limited gathering. To give an
interesting sort of amusement, Vasanth tied the nuptial knot on Priya followed
by the same act by Mukund on Chitra. Priya quipped “Ram uncle, I could say to
my people that I got married before my mother” I laughed loudly and appreciated
and admired his sense of smart humor in Priya. I met Mukund for the first time who appeared to be decent and socializing.
He told me that “It sounds exciting and fantastic to be wedded at this age on
this stage. We hope to marry again in another 10 years’ time.” I was a bit
startled at that statement. Mukund clarified with a mischievous smile “Ram, I
meant my Sashtiyapthapurthi (a symbolic repeat of tying the nuptial knot by the
husband on his wife’s neck when he turns sixty years). I could not control my
laugh. Everyone around too enjoyed the humor, including Chitra, Vasanth, and
Priya. A sumptuous lunch was served after the marriage ceremony. When the lunch
was nearing completion, Surendar appeared on the scene from nowhere and caught
the attention of everyone. He waited till the lunch was completed. Chitra,
although taken by surprise and shock, requested him to partake in the lunch.
But he said, “I am here not for eating but for greeting the couples.” I met
Surendra’s eyes, maybe after three decades. He tried to smile at me but could
not succeed. Later he wished the couples with flower bouquets. He told Chitra “
The house is already in your name and it will continue to remain so. Besides, I
shall transfer two grounds (measuring 4800 square feet) of the open plot near
Tambaram in the name of Priya, as my gift. He sought a five minutes appointment
with Chitra and me. He confessed to us that he committed a blunder in divorcing
Chitra. His second marriage was not going through, the way he expected, he
told. He told me that he had a dream, a few days ago in which he underwent
untold misery of torture and torment for his past acts, including the grudge he
carried against me for decades together. He told me “Ram, I am sad on certain counts
but happy to have met you again. If you will not mind, I would like to have
your friendship.” I said “Why not Surendar, by all means. With these two
marriages, there will not be any more competition between us in the future.”
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Added on July 18, 2022 Last Updated on July 18, 2022 Author![]() JoyramCoimbatore, South India, IndiaAboutI am a humor-loving, writing-addicted, compassion-ruled simple ordinary man having complex views and extraordinary life philosophy. more..Writing
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