Chapter 1A Chapter by JocastaIt’s
raining, it’s pouring, the old man is snoring Jed
pressed his nose against the window and recalled the childhood rhyme as he
watched the rain drum down on the pavement outside. The heavy drops fed the rapidly
growing puddles or bounced off the pavement into scurrying feet. Women had the worst of it he noticed; fussily dressed office girls, their outfits
dictated by the weather when they left home, or their after work plans, were
caught out by the shower now sending rivulets of water into their open toed
shoes. He wrapped his fingers round his coffee as he watched people run between
doorways or wrestle with umbrellas on the crowded pavement. The sky was grey
and he fancied the rain to be an angry deity rendering his fellow humans as
helpless as ants trying to escape boiling water from an upturned kettle. The
thought made him feel slightly anxious so he turned away from the window and examined
the rest of the café. Taking in the queue at the counter and the bustle of
customers struggling with umbrellas and coats at the door, his eyes came to
rest on a woman sitting alone in the corner. Dark hair pooled around her head as she rested
it on the back of her low chair, a half drunk mug of coffee sat on the table in
front of her, both feet were planted flat on the floor, (he noticed the handle
of her bag was wrapped around one ankle) and her hands rested on her thighs,
palms pointing up. Her eyes were closed and he wondered if she had fallen
asleep, unlikely as it seemed given the steamy noisiness of her surroundings. He
sat and watched her, touched by how peaceful she looked, but it seemed almost
as if his gaze disturbed that peace because after only a minute or so, he saw
her open her eyes and rejoin the world. At once she was brisk and focused; a quick
glance at her watch, her coffee was finished, bag scooped up, coat on and in
one fluid movement she was at the door, waving goodbye to the baristas as she
left. He turned back to the window and watched as she bobbed in and out of view
before turning off down a side street.
He
sighed, and checked his watch, he still had 15 minutes before his appointment,
pulling the Google map he had printed off earlier from his pocket, he checked
his route for the 10th time, yes; just over the square and to the
left, it would only take a few minutes. He drained the last of his coffee, the
café seemed different now, not so much warm and inviting, but noisy and
crowded, almost as if the woman had taken some of the positive energy with her
when she left. He slid off the stool and pulled his things together, perhaps a walk
through the ground floor of John Lewis en route, would kill enough time for him
not to be too early. --------------------------
S**t,
new client in 5 minutes, need to get a move on, Sylvie shut her laptop, and
mentally ran through her checklist, OK mobile off, desk phone turned down,
laptop shut, water jug full, glass clean, tissues replenished, bladder empty. Yep,
ready to go.
One
of the things Sylvie liked about working at
At
1:58, she walked the few short steps to the waiting room and found only one
person there,
“Jed
Turner?”
He
stood up and walked towards her, tall, late thirties, nicely dressed, he was working
a smart casual look, suggesting that cared enough about what people think to
make an effort, but didn’t feel the need to convey whatever success or wealth he
had, at his first therapy appointment. Sylvie noted that his hair was short, well cut,
greying round the edges, he had a newspaper in one hand and his coat, still a bit
damp from the rain over his arm.
She
smiled and led him back down the corridor to the room, shutting the door behind
him. He hesitated momentarily and then chose the sofa, most people did. Sylvie
thought it was probably because clients, unsure on their first visit, liked to
feel the wall against their back. Either that or they were Woody Allen fans and
expected her to ask them to lie down; in either case Sylvie knew the pattern was
generally set at the first session and that clients rarely changed position
subsequently. Actually, she wished more would, it nearly always leds to some
significant work on the rare occasions it happened.
But
Jed sat on the sofa, Sylvie took her usual chair and looked up at him, for the
first time their eyes met and they took a moment to see each other. Sylvie
thought that he looked startled, or perhaps confused.
“I
saw you” he said, “in the café, just over the square”
“Oh….
yes, I sometimes go there at lunchtimes, change of scenery” She smiled
“You
looked very peaceful”
“Did
I? I try to tune out, you know, give my mind a rest and slow down for a bit” she
thought for a moment “it would be probably be more effective if I didn’t drink
strong coffee while I was there, but, you know, habits are hard to break”. Looking
at him on the sofa, she was struck by how he seemed the very antithesis of
peaceful, his long frame was hunched up into the corner as though trying to
take up less space than he actually needed. Sylvie was reminded of children who
hide behind cushions when something on the television is scary or embarrassing,
perhaps he was fighting the urge to do the same.
“You sounded wistful when you said ‘peaceful’,
I wonder what your experience of feeling peaceful is?”
There
was a silence as Jed considered the question, his eyes were moving around the room and his
mouth was twisting round his face, Sylvie
was reminded of a schoolboy called upon
to work out a difficult maths question. She sat, still but attentive, and after
some moments his eyes turned back to her,
“I don’t know what it feels like”, he said, puzzled as if he had only just
realised, “I do things, I go places, I see friends, I do stuff that fills my
time, I’m not sure there’s any room for peacefulness“.
Sylvie
nodded in recognition of his busy-ness, and thought about how much she needed
her little bits of time whittled out of the day. That half hour in the café is
what gave her the strength for the afternoon; it is where she ritually let go of
her morning clients and their feelings, and regained herself. But the memory of how she used to live her life, lurching from
activity to task, never daring to be still, lay close to the surface and she
thought she understood what Jed was talking about. As the session continued Sylvie learnt more
about Jed, he had evidently built up a small but now successful media
advertising company, he was financially secure, had many friends and interests,
but had never had a long term relationship. It seemed as if he had gradually and unwillingly
realised that he was living essentially
to work, celibate and unfettered, he was not sure in his thirties how this had
happened, it was not what he had envisaged and the thought that he would grow
old and die alone was causing him some anxiety.
As
the 50 minute hour drew to a close she gently let him know that it was time to
stop, “’Really?”
Jed
was surprised, “
It feels like I’ve only been here about 10 minutes, have I really been talking
for all that time?”
“yes,
you have, is that a new experience for you, to talk about yourself for that
long?”
“yes,
just a bit” Jed sounded rueful and ran his hands through his hair as he stood
up. “feels good though”.
she
opened the door for him
“If
you think about it, it’s not that usual in everyday life to have someone listen
to us for that length of time, that’s why therapy can often be a very powerful experience
and why it seems to go so fast at first”
Jed
hesitated for a moment in the doorway and she noticed for the first time how
blue his eyes were, “yes” he said thoughtfully, “ I can see that”. Sylvie felt
the smallest rush of something, as yet indefinable, but very possibly
attraction for the few seconds they
stood together, and then he was off, down the hall towards Tanya to confirm his
next appointment and arrange billing. Sylvie noted the sensation to herself but
left it out of the notes that she hastily scribbled to be typed up later. There
was just enough time to replenish the water jug and retrace her steps to the waiting
room.
She
could see as soon as she got there, that Misty, her next client was agitated; eyes
bright, feet tapping, Misty (or Mephisto Huffington) to give her her full name)
stood up when she spied Sylvie. Her coat and bag which had been on her lap were
knocked to the floor and having lept up, she immediately dropped own to
retrieve her belongings.
Sylvie
also knelt and scooped up the Chanel lipstick that rolled towards her,
assessing the situation. It seemed likely that “something had happened” since
their session the previous week, in which Misty had been calm and focused. This
looked like a return to the sort of behaviour that Misty had first come to her
with, and whilst it wasn’t the first time it had reappeared, Sylvie was sorry
to see it now. As Misty gathered everything up and followed her down the
corridor with a sort of skipping walk, Sylvie pondered why she was so sorry.
She liked to think it was from a position of empathy with Misty’s difficulty in
regulating her emotions, and the inevitable despair she knew she would
experience. She suspected the real reason however, at least in part, was that
it reflected badly on her view of herself as an effective and competent
therapist. That familiar and nagging voice in her head which, had been there as
long as she could remember, was quietly hissing “not good enough”.
Sylvie
knew where the voice came from and knew it served neither herself nor her
clients, so she worked hard to tuck it away inside its box. As she closed the
door to her room Misty had already taken her place on the sofa and was bouncing
at one end of it, arranging cushions and attempting unsuccessfully to settle.
“Misty,
you’ve brought a lot of energy with you today, I wondering if it might be
helpful to spend some time getting grounded?”
There
was a derisory snort in response “oh come on, I got loads to tell you I don’t
want to waste time with your new age breating shirt”
That
figured
“OK,
I know you don’t buy the ‘new age s**t’ as you call it, but I think I would
find it helpful, I do want to hear what you have to say, but I’m distracted by
the energy bouncing off you”
Big
sigh “OK” with rolling eyes and exaggerated movements Misty slammed her feet on
the floor, slapped her hands on her knees, exhaled loudly and closed her eyes.
As
Sylvia talked her through her breathing, deep breaths in, longer ones out, she
took a good look at her client and mentally ran through their relationship so
far. Misty’s father was well known in the city, having had a long and
successful career in banking. A word in the ear of one of his clients had
secured for his daughter an internship on a new e-magazine (it had taken Sylvie a while to work out this was
essentially a website) which she had been desperate to do well at. Having
experienced some of the most expensive education money could buy both here and
abroad, topped off by secretarial college in
Misty’s
response to this had since childhood, been to demand to be noticed by repeated
difficult behaviour, hence the many different schools. Her parents in response
had withdrawn even further, whilst spending more and more money on her,
presumably to offset their guilt. Sylvie harboured a grumbling resentment
towards the man and woman who paid her monthly invoice efficiently and
promptly, but were apparently incapable of reaching out emotionally to their
only daughter. Bracketing this resentment had been hard at times, especially in
the early part of the therapy when she had been faced with a demanding and
often unreasonable young woman, who clearly had expected Sylvie to provide a
solution to her chaotic life, without actually contributing anything to it
herself. Which was why Sylvie was really
proud of the work that they had done recently. Accepting that success or
failure at the internship would inevitably make no different to her parents,
Misty had allowed Sylvie to take their place and to share her experience of
finding her way in a new environment, working hard and daring to believe that
this was something she actually had potential to do well in. Sylvie’s pleasure
in Misty’s growth reflected a sense of work, previously unknown to the emotionally
neglected young woman and Misty began to experience a sense of pride in herself;
she got herself to work each day, on time, worked hard and smartened up her
look. Sylvie knew, therefore, looking at
the dishevelled client in front of her, that something quite bad had
happened.
She
waited for Misty’s body to quieten, her breathing to became regulated and then
asked her to open her eyes, Misty was
still enough now to at least look straight at her and hold her gaze.
“OK”
said Sylvie with a smile, “what’s happening with you?”.
“You
know that Tilly…”
“The
Editor?”
“….Yeah,
Tilly the editor, she said I could moderate the main article, remember?” Sylvie
nodded
“It’s
a really big deal, you have to be logged on the whole time when the article
goes up, you have to read every comment and decide whether it’s ok to post or
not, you know, whether it’s insulting or offensive, all that stuff, there’s a
whole policy on it and everything, but the main thing is that for the first 5
or 6 hours, you have to monitor the
responses.”
“Sounds
like a really important job”
“It
is, you can’t even go for a piss without getting someone to watch the screen
while you’re away, no f*g breaks, lunch at your desk, all that “
“Tilly
must have a lot of faith in you to give you that much responsibility”
Misty’s
face screwed itself up in response “Yeah,
I think she did” “Did” Misty
exhaled loudly, waving her arm around in agitation. “You
know that guy I told you about?” Sylvie
didn’t remember, she looked quizzical “You
know, works upstairs” “Oh,
the solicitor, from the law firm, good looking?” “yeah,
that one, Ryan his name is, anyway, the day before the article was posted, we
got talking in the smoking area, just chatting you know, we got on, we were
having a laugh and we walked back to the building together. Anyway, Tilly saw
us and said to me, she said..” Misty
paused to remember the exact words. “…yeah,
she said I looked distracted and maybe, maybe I wasn’t ready to moderate” Her
face crumpled “like
she was already having second thoughts about me, and whether I could do it; she
must have or why else would she say that?”
“I
wonder if it was just her way or reminding you about the task in hand? But
whatever she meant, I’m hearing that it felt like a criticism?”
Misty
was silent for a moment. “yes” she said quietly. “Who
else makes you feel criticised?” “My
parents; whenever I started at a new school Mum would say ‘could you just try
to stay out of trouble at this one’, not like she was really asking, more
making the point that she didn’t expect me to be able to be stay out of trouble,
like she knew I’d never be good at anything, and that’s what it felt like when
Tilly said that, like she knew I was going f**k it up, that it was only a
matter of time.”
“I
think Misty, as we talked about before, that it’s maybe easy for you to hear
criticism, even when none is intended, precisely because you’ve had so much of
it from your parents, does that sound right?”
“I
know what you mean, that because I’m used to being treated one way by my
parents, I expect other people to treat me that way too, but I really did f**k
it up this time”
“OK,
OK, remember to breathe and tell me what happened”
“Well,
ok, after work I bumped into Ryan again on the way out, and we went for a
drink, actually too many drinks and then we had something to eat and then I
ended up at his flat”
Misty
came to an abrupt halt and went back to staring at the floor.
Sylvia
knew this one, she was being invited to admonish her client, instead she waited
for Misty to look up and smiling kindly, motioned for her to continue.
“I
stayed the night, we had sex” this came out in a rush.
“OK”
said Sylvie flatly, noting the significance of what happened, without conveying
any judgment.
“Good
catholic girls aren’t supposed to behave like that” Misty said to the floor
Sylvie
repressed a sigh, when Misty was like this she put her at about 4 or 5 years,
still struggling to take responsibility for the consequences of her actions,
and wanting to be absolved.
“But,
twenty-two year old women can make choices about what they want to do” she said
more tersely than she had wanted to. She thought about but then rejected the
opening of Misty’s decision making and her feelings about sex, it was
important, but detracted from the issue at hand and a quick glance at the clock
showed the session was drawing to and end, but still, she had to check..
“Did
you feel coerced?”
“Oh,
no, nothing like that” Misty looked up finally “actually I had a really nice
time, it was lovely, you know? But the awful thing is that I overslept, got to
work late, Tilly had to post the article for me because I was so late”
“Not
a great start” Sylvie commiserated
“That’s
not the worst of it, the worst thing is that I was so f*****g hungover and
feeling so sick " we were drinking cocktails - that I didn’t do a great job of
moderating, quite a lot of crap got through”
“OK”
said Sylvie, back to the neutral voice, noticing that Misty’s leg had started
jig up and down again.
“Tilly
had to point them out to me” her voice was rising “My big chance, my chance to
show I am up to it and she ends up having to do the job for me”
Sylvie
tried to radiate calm, it didn’t appear to have any impact on her client.
“So
now she thinks I’m crap and Ryan’s ignoring me, so he thinks I’m a drunken
w***e, and I’m probably going to get sacked, and then my Dad’s going be like
‘not again’ and it’s not fair, everything
I do turns out bad.”
“It’s
not fair?”
Misty
groaned
“Oh
I know, it’s not about fair or not, its about ‘owning my actions’” the last
part accompanied by quotation marks with her fingers. “but that just proves my
point doesn’t it? I am crap because I’m responsible, everything I do goes
wrong, my parents are right, I’m a waste of time and money”
Sylvie,
not for the first time, shivered inwardly at the callousness of parents, and
thought for a moment.
“Misty,
you know I can’t endorse this view you have of yourself when you’re down, this
is an old narrative learnt from your parents, it’s not who you are”
Misty
looked at her, her leg was still but her eyes were moist and more bits of hair
had escaped from its fastening.
“we
don’t have much time left, and I really want to make sure you in a better place
when you leave, does that sound like a good idea”
Misty
agreed and so the rest of the session was spent exploring a different telling
of the story, a version that highlighted what Misty had achieved and what she could positively do to
make amends with Tilly. The issue of Ryan and the feelings of rejection he had
evoked were more complex and Sylvie made a mental note to check this out at the
next session.
Ultimately,
Misty did leave calmer than she had arrived, but Sylvie was left with a heavy
air which did not dissipate as she wrote up her day’s notes, and was still with
her later when the left the building. The rain had stopped and as it was an altogether pleasanter evening than
it had been day, and she decided to walk home in an effort to shift her mood. © 2012 JocastaFeatured Review
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