Judgment

You know, It's really easy to just look at people and just start making judgments about them

I mean

Do you know them?

Do you know whats happening to them now in the present time?

Or what they've been through in their past?

No

Stop judging people depending on how they look

because

You'd be pretty amazed once you get to know them

You'd be astounded by the tears and the pain in each single smile that hides the truth

The truth of what their going through

The truth of what they've been through

The truth of it all that a single smile mastered to hide

What a person shows to the world

To us

They only show a teeny facet of the of the glacier buried from the eye

And further more, it's lined with cracks and scars that go all the way to the foundation of their soul, inside the abyss where their hearts lay

Never judge a book for its cover, and that goes to us people as well

Learn to respect and acknowledge the feelings of another.

Never judge someone or anyone without knowing the whole story

You may think you understand

But you don't

So learn and acknowledge before pretending to be the judge.

Reviews

[Farhan Shaikh]

This is true..we cannot judge them when we do not know what they're going through..a message in this poem has been conveyed well.

[Joey Nizz]

Im glad you think so too!
and yes we connot judge anyone because we dont really know whats happening to themin their life and even if we knew we shouldnt either.

Thanks for your review.

[JessyJacob]

You are very true, but situations are like that also and we do need to listen also, but the looking deep inside and harsh words with action and reaction.
Ya people need to be sorry, then the person also realizes what I have understood by them.

I know life is being like hurting me.

[Joey Nizz]

Im glad you agree with the writing, and yes I agree we need to listen to one and other to understand each other.

Thank you fro your review jessy!

[JessyJacob]

Thank you, I am not fit for even understanding, for ill person and normal person, it would be different, yes I need medication, to be atleast out from depressed thoughts, and you guys dont need medication right, Thank you, everyone is different and unique. Then and now also, an incident happened in 1995 somebody in theatre, infront of everyone, a guy falls on a girl(neighbour), both are loving each other, but the girl got scared when he falled on her saying I love you, and I had to shout at him, dont fall on her, with harsh words. But later both got married, I was not knowing their relationship of love. But I did encourage love marriages, which were not tragedy. But people can ignore my comments, by seeing your and my surroundings, if not excuse/forgive me. I was seriously thinking of person on the other side, who felt maybe true, I listened equally, even if I show love towards them, my common balance woukd have not adjusted. I am really sorry, I do cared for her too, wedding life which was supposed to be happen. But anyways everything happens for a reason.

[Joey Nizz]

Your right everything happens for a reason, and Dont be sorry your just expressing your self and you dont have to apologize for it.

[JessyJacob]

Both those guys are my neighbours, and elder to me, but the girl was younger, near my age. It looked very hurting for me, to see that guy falling on her, I was like "I will slap you with my chappal", said to that guy, whom I used to call brother(annayya), but the guy shouted on me, dont talk or dont come in the middle. Actually it looked vulgar, when the guy was getting very close to the girl, on the chair in theatre. Actually I only exchanged their love letters, not knowing what he was giving, because her parents doesn't like that guy. But she came out from family and married that guy. But I like and love the girl, very cool and nice smiling girl, we used to play together, but her parents brought her mingled with their family, when she gave birth to a kid.

Even in my bachelors, my senior asked me to give on valentines day, a card and rose flower to girl in hostel, he didnt had that guts to talk to that girl. Asked me later I did gave kept near her bed, actually she was my batch mate. But my senior was a good person too.

[JessyJacob]

I will do apologize if I say something wrong to anyone. Thank you for your note.

[Joey Nizz]

That's an interesting story, and dont apologize you didnt say anything wrong.

And your welcome no need for thanks :p