It's never the same.

What are the most highly regarded, necessary and desired objectives

 in life that are continually  at the forefront people's minds?

Mankind’s aim in life is to have fun, enjoy and be happy. 

These achievements would be collectively described as fulfilment.  

Fulfilment must not only be achieved it must been seen to be so. 

Look at me, look at what I’m doing, look at where I am, look at what I’ve got me, me, me…

This is what people labour for, spend time and money on trying to achieve, but most fail. 

Let's take a look at fun and see what it truly holds and delivers in the arena of our expectations. 

Fun, in and of itself, is transitory or fleeting and is an expectation that often fails. 

How many times have you blamed someone, or been blamed for spoiling the fun? 

How many plans that you have made, to have fun, have failed due to circumstances beyond your control? 

How many times have you “put on a brave face” and pretended to have fun for the sake of others? How often have you insisted that people loosen up and enjoy the fun? 

The biggest disaster where fun is concerned is trying to relive the moment at a future date while the great spoiler is waiting in the wings. 

Lets not plan they say it’s better when it’s spontaneous! 

Lets not make arrangements because someone always drops out! 

Lets not go back, because it’s never the same!

Author's Note

This is a work in progress...