WHY MEN? WHY?

my raging inner thoughts on men...

How come every time you meet a man the first encounter is the best?

 

How come when I meet a man he has to say he's not like the rest?

 

How come when I meet a man he performs like sex is not the only interest...

 

how come when im with a man...he first treats me like a Queen...

 

how come after I'm with a man everything isn't what it seems?

 

How come when i find the perfect man....he's only in my dreams??

 

how come men could manipulate some women and they be so naive??

 

Now its hard to trust many men because a good one is hard to believe..

 

why when men see they have you where they want you...they have to somehow deceive??

 

Some may say All im talking is noise....but ive come to realize even MEN in this world could also be known as boys

 

 

 

 

Author's Note

PLEASE COMMENT ON YOUR OPINION...IM CURIOUS TO HEAR A MANS POINT OF VIEW

Reviews

[TC Dunn]

There are good men out there that will continue to treat women like Princesses even after they are intimate. But unfortunately there tend to be more jerks out there (both men and women) that tend to give their gender bad names. I've come across girls and guys alike that both treat their spouses like crap and the I've seen ones that are great to each other. The key is recognizing when someone is a d****e and staying away from them, telling yourself that your better than that and being ok to wait for the right one to come along. The problem I see so many times is that a person will just want to be in a relationship, want to be "in love" that they will fool themselves into believing that the first person that comes along is "the one" and they will overlook their crappy behavior in the beginning... either believing that they can "change" them or they tell themselves that that person is actually a sweet person deep down, and as time goes by it becomes harder and harder to ignore the fact that they treat you like crap. I think we just need to stay away from the problem people to begin with, the "bad boys" and the "party girls". Sure their attention is great for a while, but eventually they will revert back to who they truly are, and we'll be nothing but a passing fancy for them that they can just crush under their shoes.

[Everett DeValle]

Personally, I felt the same way when I was younger, but came experience through time, and wisdom that falls with it...You know, not one lady possessed all the attributes I sought in the past, but I found it in many...the old adage is "variety is the spice of life." Maybe, one day my heart can settle when all my pieces of heart has mended, and find "the one", that may tame me.

I think you should dance with the music, enjoy it for the moments, and learn when to move on...there will be many loving moments, there will be many heart breaks...the affairs of the heart, is always hard, to understand, when 2 are at different levels...yet when you do find someone that you can trust, and that's the key word...then you will see the joys and even the pains of love. :)

[Octob3r Star]

I'm still trying to figure this out myself ;)

[Neva Flores Smith - Cha..]

Unfortunately we are all human and imperfect but most of us male and female try to put our best foot forward to begin with. There are actually lots of good men out there but some of us have a bad habit of getting bored with the good ones fast and hanging on to the ones who kick us in the teeth because we like the burn..Ugly isn't it? Great poem Honey54

[The White Wolf]

It is probably because good men can be hard to find, my friend. Once you do, you will realize that all these questions can be answered by simply taking into account the last three words you wrote. They are still out there, I promise. I hope you meet a great one :)