Divorce- Moving on to being Non-JudgementalA Poem by Dr Sharmila ParajuliThe factors that are responsible for divorce are many and any pronouncing of a single issue or a particular direction is baseless and unprovable
Divorce is a two-way street, it takes two to tango
Not every single marriage is as sweet as mango We all know that marriages don't crumble in a day It's a slow descent into personal routines that keep getting in each other's way Who are others to judge and comment on them getting divorced for "trivial" reasons Unless you live in their home with their problems and issues; it is better not to make assumptions Remember that the cause is always inside the triangle of his story, her story and the truth Each case is separate and we should leave the rest to finalize it smooth Some comment that the woman didn't fulfill her obligations as a wife Others blame that male chauvinism was the rife Sometimes, the gold-digger woman knows she has everything to gain by demanding it And, sometimes the men have cheated, lied or broken vows which they admit The factors that are responsible for divorce are indeed many Marriage takes a lot of hard work and compromise besides any We cannot judge unless we walk in his/her shoes And, we don't need to try to solve the puzzle or pick up on subtle clues Whatever might be the reason, it is tragedy on society's part and so much impact on the children Both the parents need to keep their ego aside and commit to making healthy co-parenting their main mission Each of them crave and deserve equal respect from the other And, for the sake of the children try to be in cordial terms in the future
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StatsAuthorDr Sharmila ParajuliKathmandu, Hindu, NepalAboutI am a full-time Pathologist with experience of over 15 years in reporting histopathology with emphasis on gynae-pathology. Part-time writer who loves to write on issues that need to be talked about .. more..Writing
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