A Widows Request

So many find it so hard to be around the newly bereaved.

Please come visit, often, as before...
bring no gifts, flowers, only friendship.
Bring not trepidation or awkwardness,
as it is circumstance and not I that have changed.
Bring me not your sadness and heavy heart,
as these at present I own by right.
Instead bring memories,
memories of good times spent.
Speak his name but without hesitation or fear,
as that will never die unless allowed.
Reminisce with stories, laughter, smiles,
and this will be my comfort.
And if you do this he will live on,
in our hearts and minds.
Please come visit, and often...

Reviews

[alifeacoustic]

A very wonderful piece of writing my friend. Maybe fate made me read this today, as it the 14th anniversary of my Dad passing, and was only an hour ago hearing my Mum say the exact same sentiment as your excellent write.
Many thanks for sharing.

[Gee]

Thank you for your kind words, appreciated.

[Relic]

I also think you wrote it just fine. Ye, it can be awkward not knowing what to say or how to act around someone who has lost someone. That kind of grief takes time to get over but being alone is only time to feel lonely and sad. Good friends should always be there for each other. Good poem.

[Gee]

Cheers,thanks for reading/reviewing

[Jamestown]

I think you said this just fine:)
Your point was made and is clear as day,
enjoyed reading this and b-blessed.

[Gee]

Thanks JT,you're very kind.Have posted a couple,religion based,which you might find interesting. "Devoted to God" and "The preacher,a boy and a question" Cheers, take care