When a man loves a woman
There is no path to follow, when a man loves a woman, time does not exist, there are no arguments, the others do not exist, the lover is not aware of himself. there is only a sublime peace surrounding the lovers.
But then, when you are installed in heaven, your mind begins to think. Thinking is the enemy of feeling, because it means measuring. Thinking and measuring are the same reality. When space is invedade by thinking, there is no room for love.
Finally, it bursts the war between our soul and our mind. And heaven dissapears.