Natural Dichotomy

A poem about acceptance, denial, the quest for love and friendship, and self-exploration.

Scold me for my indiscretions to nature

Reprimand me for my hypocrisy

Guide me through my insecurities

Love me for who I truly am

Have concern for me when I am unsure

Hold me when I do not understand

Condemn me if you do not understand

Support me through my tribulations

Believe in me when I do not

Abuse me if you think my friendship unworthy

Embrace me when I need compassion

Ostracise me if you are that shallow

Disown me if blood is less important than belief

Seduce me if your intentions are mine

Brand me if you are too narrow-minded not to

Blame me when you don’t have the courage to face responsibility

Dessert me when I need you the most

Trust me for the simple fact that trust is scarce and invaluable

Confide in me so we can care for each other

Tease me if your immaturity supersedes mine

Look at me so I can marvel at your beauty

Strike me down even if it is just to uphold your values

Remember me so you can say you once knew me

Befriend me because I am worth having as a friend

Author's Note

Growing up and coming to terms with my sexuality, specifically in the context of my family coming to terms with it, was very difficult. I felt isolated within myself and within my family and social circles. I wrote this poem as both a wish, for true acceptance, and a burden, due to the denial and self doubt I had, especially among friends and family. And, in spite of one's sexuality, there is a natural dichotomy to each individual. Its about finding and acknowledging that dichotomy, accepting that its part of you, and using that dichotomy within to motivate you to live your life honestly and without fear.