To Trust is Human ...A Story by DayranTo unite is divineA person who speaks their mind … under any circumstances … is quite often simply called divine. The personality is viewed as being touched by a higher light. But a person who is trained on social ethos … would exercise the same right to speak their mind … but by choosing their words very carefully. Undoubtedly … a divine Ms X understands that well … but would disagree that the social expression is polite. Not in the way it refers to her body … as she expects all things do.
There's a gaping ambiguity in that … and it has left many men wondering … what is it that women want? Actually that's not too hard to understand. A man creates an understanding based on his individual and personal view … and obviously there's considerable issues of a relative nature in that experience. In exactly the same manner … a woman brings her passions to bear on issues … at a personal and relative level. That would suppose a common sense obligation on the part of her man to translate her experience into a social average … in context.
Native members of a society … sometimes experience an estrangement from their cultures … due to displacement. It may be due to many reasons … on both sides of the coin … but at this time in the world's experience … it may be due to distortion in meaning from the use of a second language … especially English. Our world relations have always been characterized … by the great Indo-European relationship … that may also have gone by the expression … civil-pagan. They apparently formed a formidable partnership in personal dispositions of the human.
The choice of civil or pagan is undoubtedly a matter of personal preference … but it leaves a lingering sense of attachment … between the two. This continues to this day … and we find in our social constitution … an absence of any true pride in what may be considered as our home boy identity. The situation raises a twin issue … that has rocked our personal natures … like a fir cone under the saddle. And it creates a yearning that can only be described as an ambiguous melancholy.
When the Indics named that ambiguity after the great Rama … it explained the apparent nobility displayed by Ram … as a compensation to the experience of melancholia. This condition in the world's experience … ran into the American dream in the last 250 years … and met with the Divine Ms X. Its been personal and its been tumultuous … but it created a clarity to the natives of the world … on the reasons for their exile from native pride … and its raised a most strange condition.
In the home … the experience of the native … is to find family practices … receive a great emphasis … on account of the nursing nature of the nurturing experience. We are familiar with teens who rebel … or are simply uncooperative … beyond a certain age. For parents intent on good up-bringing practices … this presents some issues. But how will they relate to the global issues of nature … with the difficulties faced by the kid at home?
One solution is to pair the kids with a friend from another culture … who represents his opposite … in the civil-pagan condition. In doing so … we are creating the all important balance … of equal development of the mind and passion. This helps to overcome the reports of the fall of man … that's found in every culture in the world. It takes the demon out of the … demonstrative effects of destructive behavior in which … the child must break down something … to create corrections.
In the case where a child is viewing his friend in the ' creative phenomenon ' of pagan practices … the child is encouraged into the complementary nature of … ' a trained institutionalized view. ' Its also the global balance of the world … in maintaining the right quotient regarding its civil-pagan content. It is possible to bring our learning to pagan practices … at a later date … in the advancement of our scholarship … to explore the rich world of the passions … rationally and with mind … and discover that its simply an exaltation of the lived-in nature of life.
Its also the defining relation between the genders. Each relies on the other for support … in their naturally occurring … social organization … of roles that best optimizes our joint possibilities. A knowledge orientation relies on factual natures … and passion produces the authentic experience of touch … that knowledge seeks with its environment. They understand each other better than they know … and that forms the basis of trust … without the compelling need for the egoistic gratification of self attribution.
Trust forms a stronger instrument of self-assurance … and confidence … and the reliance of support from the other side of our personality. So long as we are clear that it is from the other half … and create an attitude of relating as such … we don't have a problem. Its when the lines are blurred … and we think we can do everything … is when we get into problems with attachment … and its effect of yearning. The passions … on the other hand … encounter the suggestion that beauty is the basis of human knowledge … and thereafter to quiz on the irascible turn-of-mind as to whether … beauty also makes knowledge correct.
There's a place … many of us may not have visited for some time. Its the place of trust .. and each of us knows where that is. For a man trained on civil natures … his disposition regarding his word given can only be lost … if his complementary side … helps him to hide what he had said. It does that subtly … expressing its own will to the right view … and to help us avoid embarrassment … on our part. The man gets an opportunity to review that … and to review the basis of his trust.
In all such matters … our deliberations look to the integration … of our personality … to the environment. A US general who was found drunk and naked … chasing girls in a party … that spilled into the hallway of a hotel … was tasked to a review of his actions. The court marshall affirmed the rules on the uniform code as ' an officer should always dress appropriately for the situation he is engaged in.' He was acquitted.
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Added on January 6, 2015 Last Updated on January 6, 2015 AuthorDayranMalacca, MalaysiaAbout' Akara Mudhala Ezhuththellaam Aadhi Bhagavan Mudhatre Ulaku ' Translation ..... All the World's literature, Is from the young mind of the Original Experiencer. .. more..Writing
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