Child SupportA Chapter by DarneathaThis is the introduction to the bookA talented young lady fighting for her identity, erasing the person she uses to be and developing her new self. Having children as early as 15 and still continuing her education. Making a decision to let the children live with their father, to develop a relationship with them and learn ways of a man, only to fully develop her character and find her place in this life. Being placed on child support by the step mother, and fighting to justify her character as a mother. Servicing elite and substantial women in all areas of the fashion, social industry and building a good relationship with them. While making a name for myself in the makeup industry and building a business from the ground up. Running into the love of my life finally, getting to the peak of breaking full circle into the makeup industry and run into the most tragic situation. The book is not to blame anyone for the mishap that she encountered, but to express how sometimes the good people you think are in your corner to support you in your growth, can’t. It displays the strength your enemy and how you should never underestimate how far people will go to destroy what you have created for your self. It exhibits God taking away the first to establish the second and how if you apply his word in your heart it does manifest into your life vividly. You always here about men placed on child support, buy have you ever heard about a women being placed on child support. If it characterizes a man in a different way what does it do for a woman? There are women on child support as will as men, not as many, but there stories are never exposed to the public. There share the same experience as a man, but I believe even worst. It is the integrity of that mother or woman is questioned because of the position she obtains. I do not believe a mother is a bad for recognizing and acknowledging she didn’t not have a child alone. In reguards to how she personally feels about he other parent that is the person she trusted ay one point layed down, took the chance, having unprotected sex, and had a child with. The mother was active in the nurturing years of the child, especially in boys and wanted a chance to establish herself in other areas of life. Thanking God that she had children with men that did not shy away from the responsibility of being the other caretaker for the child like you here from most women. The two parents having sense enough for the child to come in terms of new living arrangements to further push the child in a good direction. The father now having another family his is leading not respecting his decision to add this child full time into their life. Get involved in a life that is not here to hide her flaws from anyone, a person that is here to connect with people in their change process. When you hear some great leaders in the religion industry they tell you they understand because they have been their too, but where was their there? They give you an example, but don’t tell their story completely. I will meet you where you are spiritually and understand what you feel from real personall experience. I do not want and will not step on anyone’s toes in a position greater than mine, I can understand after you have arrive at the conclusion of the road God has choosen for you getting into details about how you got to that point becomes irrelevant. Most leaders could reach more souls if they became more accessible to being dissected. People associated themselves with people they can say are like them or have been like them. I know many women wounld not share the information I shared about them it would be too personal to share. They would not want to be judged, every woman has done something that they are not proud of and would take to their grave before exposing it to anyone. I just can’t be embarrassed telling any and everyone about things I have done, I’m too proud of the woman I have became because of those chioces, mishaps, and mistakes. I laughed at some point in this writing because I may have left out some stories, honestly I know I have I would to write another book. If a person was to speak to people in my past they would have stories to share, but I rejoice in the fact that they are sharing old stories, nothing recent speaking about how I use to be not speaking about how I am now. © 2012 DarneathaAuthor's Note
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