Unrequited Love-Changes

Some people would tried to change themselves for love, but sometimes, it won't always work the way we thought it would be and start to think that we're not good enough. The following are just my POV.

  Sometimes,when we met a person that you have a crush on whether it's at work or at school, we might change ourselves to get them to like you back and give more attention to you than usual. For example, when you know that your crush likes people who are cute and energetic, you'll start to try to change yourselves to the way that your crush likes, even when you're don't really have that kind of personality inside you. 

  

  Although sometimes when we've finally reach to their expectation, they still might not see us that way we see them. In this situation, some of us will keep trying and believe that maybe we didn't try hard enough, or we're just missing something. After that, we'll started to push ourselves to try hard and hard so that our crushes will finally come to us and start a relationship. But not matter how hard we've tried, it still won't work at the end, that's when we'll started to feel exhausted and confused of whether we should keep on trying to be someone that is not really who we are.

  Sometimes, when we noticed our crushes talk to that person a lot recently, we often will take a look at that person that our crushes have talked to a lot recently. For example, the way they talk, the show that they like, the way they study......After we've learnt from them, we'll start to mock them a bit more in front of our crushes to get their attention and to that we're the person that they've always wanted to be with. It's good if it is a good life habit, but if it's bad, we probably need to stop or else we'll get ourselves in trouble or started a unhealthy life habit.

  But actually, I think to get a crush to like us is to be who we really are. Besides, it's always important to be ourselves on matter how other see you or judge you. Sometimes, we don't have to act like the others to get someone to like us. And sometimes, our crushes can actually find out whether we're trying to be like other or not. If your crush is your friend, they would started act they don't even care to let you know they won't see you that way you see them after they found out that you've been trying really hard to be someone you're not. 

  The reason for this is that they might don't want you to keep pushing and forcing yourself like that. And because of that, they would believe that the reason you've been pretending for so long and started to feel really exhausted every time because of them. Soon, they will started to grow distants with you because it'll be the best for both of you. This means that although they don't see you that way you see them, they still care about you and don't wanted you to be tired all the time. Also, they would still want to be friends with you and keep it in the friendzone, which is not really a bad thing at all.

  So when we tried really hard but no return, is it still worth it to keep pushing ourselves that hard to get the love that we wanted from them? Instead, why not just be ourselves and live a healthy life? As always, being ourselves is always the most important thing in the world because we all matter.

  

  

Author's Note

I know this is not actually a story but that was the only genre I could choose and I wanted to share this message to the others and people who have experience the same situation. Also the things I said above are just my opinion of it. Hope you enjoy and stay positive. :)