The reality of love and hate

the line is small so small you may not see it but you must see it so you know what to do

There is a thin line between love and hate.
Do we know why?
Is because when you love someone, you block out all the bad memories.
"Just remember the good times," says your heart.
"I'm doing this because I love him/her," you may say.
But what happens when he/she decides to leave you regardless your relationship with him/her.
"Don't cry," says your mind. "He's/She's not worth your tears."
You may say, "I will move on. I will make him/her realize what her/she lost because he/she is not getting me back."
"I'm stronger than this so please don't cry," you may plead.
This is the process you use to look back and see what really happened in the source of the relationship.
If you are strong enough, you will see the truth of what really happened and try not to repeat the process.
If you tell yourself the real truth of what really happened, you will see that your love for him/her was a foolish act and if you were careful, it would have never happened the way it did.
We all know that the truth hurts, but where would we be if we lied to ourselves the whole time.
Where would we be if we were to blind to see what is really behind those curtains?
But I plead to you.
Try to look back.
Do it.
Don't do it for me, do it for you.
Tell yourself the truth of what really happened.
Don't be foolish.
Don't be like me.
If you do, you will see.
You will see the truth.
Slowly, you will start to heal.
Slowly, you will start to see who he/she really was.
Slowly, you will see that it was not your fault that you lost him/her.
It's his/her lost not yours because he/she missed out on a great opportunity.
Now the hardest part comes.
Moving on.
Moving on to what you used to have.
Remember this, you are now trained for a better relationship.
Remember that when you started with this guy/lady, you didn't know what you know now.
You are ready for a better relationship.
Now your ready to heal from the past that hurt you
If you are lucky, you may find the right guy/lady after this heartbreak.
Don't worry because the right guy/lady will stick by you and if he's/she's really serious about you, he/she will have the patience to wait and help you heal.
This is the guy/lady for you.
Give him/her a chance.
He/She will try everything in him/her power not to hurt you because he/she will fall in love with you.
He/She will be with you on the good times and the bad.
He/She will never leave you.
If things don't work out with him/her, oh well, at least your not stuck on the last one.
But remember this, the reason there is a thin line between love and hate is because when you hate the one you love, it's all a process for moving on.
It's okay to feel like that.
Pretty soon you will be ready and be in a better relationship that what you left behind.
You will soon see the truth and no longer be blinded by the power of love.
Then after the process is over, no longer will you feel hate because your over it.
You will be over her for once and for all.
All it took was to see the truth.
The truth can hurt, but it can also save you from another heartbreak.

Author's Note

please people dont end up like me
depresed and cutting hatefull to my self
just face the truth move on before it to late show herr or him its thire loss not yours
please