How to Make Your Girl Smile

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How to give genuine complements to your partner.

First impressions to a girl or guy that you find attractive can be a daunting ordeal, but with a little tuning you will have them smiling in no time. Have you ever given a compliment to someone that you like, and have them awkwardly not accept it? The air is tense, and you are telling yourself why is it so awkward. Giving a compliment to someone that you like is a good thing, it shows your attentiveness to either there physical features or there personality. But there are times when you give a compliment, and it just goes over there head. Here are three tips to help you get whatever praise you say through, and get that genuine smile.

1.) Be specific!

If you want to make your partner truly smile, and make them feel uplifted or better by what you said then be specific. What do I mean by this? Well you have to find something that you find unique about them. Lets say for example you see this beautiful girl and the Gods have been kind and you strike up a conversation. How many times do you think this girl has been called "Beautiful" "Gorgeous" "Hot" ETC? Though it is nice to say these things, sometimes its best to stand out with your compliment to make a good impression. Now I am not saying you should tell her she has "nice feet". On the contrary you need to find something that YOU find yourself to be attracted about her. It could be her looks or it could be something you find nice in her personality. Just be specific about why that feature really impresses you. In reality you are praising them for having a ability, it should be original. Having the ability to point something specific makes you standout and it makes it more of a real compliment. You also can you are beautiful but always add a little spice after it. For example I always found my ex partner beautiful, and I always told her that. What made her smile (unless she was faking) was I always told her why she was beautiful. It ranged from all sorts of topics. But again I wasn't spouting BS I always was honest about how I felt about her.

2.) Genuine and Honesty.

"Honesty is the best policy" If you tend to try to please people, then more often your compliment will go over the persons head. You have to be genuine on what you find unique about them, and you also will have to be honest about it. When you are genuine and honest about the compliment you give to a person it shows. They will see that you actually find them unique, and they will tend to accept the compliment when you subconsciously show enthusiasm. It comes really natural to me to do this, but it does take a little practice. Start off with family and friends and try to find something that you like about what they are wearing. And then proceed to further your honesty. (But be positive about it)  I was in rural France and I was at this cafe, there was this beautiful waitress. I couldn't help myself and say to her "My God you are so beautiful" Even though that was basic, I was being honest with her and she let out this big smile and thanked me.

3.) The Push And Pull.

Sometimes people cannot handle a compliment, and it can get very awkward. So doing this method will help release "Compliment tension". The basics of it is to say something super sweet and then once that is up in the air you turn it around with humor. For example I was drunk at a bar and I walked up to these group of girls sitting and drinking and said "Oh my God you all are pretty angels" Obviously they all chuckled but you could tell that some of them were pretty uncomfortable about the compliment, so after that I said this "But then again when I am drunk everyone becomes hot angels" They all lost it and started laughing hard. Not only breaking the tension from the compliment also the confrontation. You end everything with humor.

"Compliments are made for you to smile"

-Andrew Paul Caasi