Boy's Night Out!

The three things you shouldn't do in a boy's night out

LETS PATAY!!!

Here is three things you should not do and do when you are going out with your boys. Partying has been a part of my life in my teens and still going to this day. As everyone else I have enjoyed having a good night out. From my experience here are three things you should try to not to do to ruin your night.

1.) One Shot One Beer. Yep shock the body! Give it that hit that it needs to get into that party vibe. If you are going out to dance at the bar or club and you are sober. chances are when you get there you are feeling anxious. I remember multiple times where we start with just a beer and it just drags on till someone starts being a bummer. I am not saying get drunk right away because that is what I did in the beginning. And my night ended up mostly ruined. Just hit yourself with that drink combination for the first hour then continue on from there. 

2.) Know your limit. Yeah I struggled with this one. I have such a enjoyment chugging beers that I do not know when to stop. Drinking till you drop was fun back in the day. But you are older now act responsible and know your limit. Your future self will thank you later. Enjoy drinking with your bros but keep it at your own pace. It doesn't make you less of a man if you can't keep up with your raging alcoholic friends. The night out is for you to enjoy it. I mean technically if you do not feel like drinking do not drink at all. Just know when to stop. How do you know when to stop? When people start telling you you need to slow down... Even though I try to limit my beer consumption to two beers a week when I go out. I still am offered to drink a lot more then I should. I learned that saying no sometimes is the best thing for you in a night out. Also since being sober I have stopped doing a lot of stupid sh%t.

2.) Do not make meeting girls the layout of your night. I seriously cannot stress this enough. To be honest I stopped going out with some of my friends because of this topic. They make there whole night about girls. And guess what they do not get any the whole night. Because girls sense needy guys, they can tell when a guy is staring and is attracted to them. I mean really just people watch sometimes you see all the dudes holding there beer to there chest in the side stalkishly peering there eyes on hot girls. Bro do you realize how creepy you look? You are on a night out with your friends, not on some mating hunt. Spend your time enjoying your night out dancing and joking with your friends. And guess what when girls see that you could care less about them they come to you naturally. No this is not a tactic I use it's just natural bar club behavior. My friends still do not understand this concept even though I bring it up to them, but still they do not listen and get the same results. When I go out now I do it to relax and just enjoy it with the people I came with. Though I am not afraid to talk to strangers, I am there for my friends first and foremost.To use me as an example, and not to tot my own horn but this is the reality of what usually happens to me when I honestly could care less if females are involved in my night out. I really do not care, I am not desperate, I am not needy. I am there to party with my friends. And yet girls approach me rather then I approach them. I will seriously bust my moves in the middle of the dance floor with not a care in the world but to make me and my friends laugh, but yet I start up the dance floor. Going out is about having fun. People will feed off your energy and it will give them a boost to start dancing themselves. Just think of it like this if you are single and looking. Do not look, and it will come. Meeting girls can just be a added bonus of your night. But do not make it your priority of the night.

That is it, I really want to talk more about dating advice or first impressions. Though I am no casa nova, I believe I have dated some gorgeous girls throughout my years. I have had girls tell me they were instantly attracted to my demeanor and personality. I would like to help give some advice later on how to build attraction with your love interest. And the best part is I believe I am not even that good looking of a person. I clean up pretty good, but I am pretty much average. So I believe I could give you good advice for those averages dudes out there that are looking for love. Haha

"A little party never killed nobody" Fergie

-Andrew Paul Caasi