Notepad Rambles I

Yellow paper, black ink, cheap words

Run from tomorrow

Hand and hand with a harlequin

Checkered coat checking off thee sins

All a giggle for my heart. 

Reviews

[Davidgeo]

Reading this makes me ashamed of my porn addiction

[CLCurrie]

You should be ashamed because we know what you are looking at, and that is disgusting -_-

[GlendaK]

Sorry, been there. Done that...(the porn)
(I like your poem and bio. I'm in NC, too!...SJAFB)

[Davidgeo]

Shame is for losers.

[GlendaK]

Shame? or guilt

[Davidgeo]

If you feel guilt from your sexual activities you are doing it wrong and should seek therapy.

[GlendaK]

I disagree, love.

[Davidgeo]

Seriously, if you think it's normal to feel guilty or ashamed about your sexuality then you should seek therapy as soon as possible. It's not a healthy response unless you are into some very dark and illegal things... in which case therapy would still be the answer.

[GlendaK]

Look at what we said, love..."Guilt from sexual activities"...that guilt can come from it being an affair, cheating. Compre'?

[Davidgeo]

Cheating on your spouse or significant other is not bad simply because of the sex, you can cheat on a partner emotionall without touching anyone. It is bad behavior in itself beyond the physical aspect. Being attracted to other people physically is normal even if you are in a relationship, it is not something to be ashamed of or feel guilty over... acting out on those thoughts however is something to feel guilty over, it is the sign of a dysfunctional relationship and a complete disregard for another person's emotions. The sexual part is not the primary issue... the disregard for your partner's emotional well being is the problem. You can show this disregard without the physical activities, cheating can be purely emotional.

[GlendaK]

You don't think sticking your co*k in another person besides your mate shows disregard

[Davidgeo]

Yes, but that is a symptom, not the actual problem. Some people are very comfortable in open physical relationships but, they can still feel disregarded by their partner if they are emotionally neglected.
I think when someone in a standard relationship cheats on their spouse the disregard for that person came before the act of cheating, things had already gone wrong. And of course don't forget, many people are very comfortable in open relationships and don't feel disregarded at all when their partner sleeps with another person. You probably even know some of these people without knowing it.

[GlendaK]

Oh, I know