Know

It helps to know.

Understanding for those who hurt us,

Is not always easy to do.

Do they understand the pain they cause?

I’m not sure they have the first clue!

 

Anger and hate is never the answer

For punishing those that you "love".

Some think that the absolute way

Is handled with a slap or a shove.

 

These words are not for the spiteful.

They are for the injured out there.

Even when one hurt you so badly,

 You should not distrust those who care.

 

Because there has been much agony,

Does not mean you’ve suffered in vain!

It’s time to lay aside the fear,

And release the worry and strain.

 

When one truly loves another,

In their soul is real understanding.

Patience lives within their hearts.

Kindness overrules the demanding.

 

Please know!

 

I’m not so different than you!

I’ve endured a wound or two.

When I let go, my heart, it grew.

May the flame burn forever true.

Reviews

[Coyote Poetry]

Dear Belle Starr. I agree and I know. We can play both parts.
"I’m not so different than you!
I’ve endured a wound or two.
When I let go, my heart, it grew.
The flame that burns for you is true."
The above lines. True, perfect and wonderful. Thank you for sharing the amazing poetry.
Coyote

[KHpH7]

Hard to forgive
Easier to forget
But to forgive and remember
Then share the surrender
Is strength

[A. Kim Spradling]

Thank you for stopping by and reading this poem. It is very special to me and was a hard one to write. Forgive my lateness in responding to you.

[UN]

Relatable, the pain clearly present, the things that anyone who's ever been the jilted has wanted to say.

[A. Kim Spradling]

Yes, I see that you get what I am saying, but it is more than just that. Some people suffer greatly in a relationship to the point that they feel they can never get past the hurt. Verbal assault can sometimes hurt as badly as a physical blow. BUT, along with this is a point of letting go of the hurt. If you do not, you are prisoner to the fear and never can move forward freely. I hope that makes sense. This is one of my subtle preachy poems.

[Kay]

This is a comforting poem. It makes you step back and calmly reflect on your injuries in life and offers a sense of empathy and reassurance. I especially like the image "When I let go, my heart, it grew." It highlights an important way of healing.

[A. Kim Spradling]

Hi, Kay! Thank you so much for reading this piece! It's funny when you write something like this how it helps you to grow even stronger. Thank you for your review!

[Kay]

You're welcome. =) It was a pleasure to read.

[‘Thoughts In Time..]

Here here- we need to let go and move on - can be the hardest thing for some to do but you set yourself free in the process of forgiveness and you allow yourself to heal- I do think that a lot of the people who treat others badly have deep underlying pain or some kind or rejection themselves- wise words here🌹

[A. Kim Spradling]

Thank you for expressing your thoughts regarding this piece. I appreciate you spending time to read it.

[Re-Pete]

terrific. so much wisdom and meaning in these words. this speaks abundantly on so many levels. we must file this in our hearts. touching write that leaves a lasting impression. thanks for sharing ... :)

[A. Kim Spradling]

Thank you for the review. This poem means a great deal to me. I am so glad that others are reading it and taking something away from it. Thank you!

[S.zaynab.kamoonpury]

Physical abuse is common in relationships as I have observed the world over. Your poem is rebuking it very gently and leniently. Awesome rhyming, thoughts expressed in a very appealing way. Poetically excellent. Kudos.


I'm quite a newbie here, Pleez do review, write your thoughts under my newest poem too. Luv making friends and am used to exchange of comments.

[A. Kim Spradling]

Sometimes verbal abuse can sting every bit as bad as physical. Thank you for your review. I can guarantee that I will be around to review yours soon as well!

[S.zaynab.kamoonpury]

Yeah pal I think I've got atleast some verbal abuse in my relationship and it stings real real bad ah. Take care.

[Lavi]

I find myself back here and reading this writing. I don't feel as though I'll ever get tired of it. It has more meaning with every time I read it, again and again. Who ever said there was no power in words?

[A. Kim Spradling]

Your words are so kind. I sincerely appreciate your response. This poem came from deep in my heart. Thank you!

[wordman]

seems like we always hurt the ones we love

[A. Kim Spradling]

Maybe it is time to find a way to right those wrongs... Hurt sometimes begets hurt.

[wordman]

yes i know,sometimes we don`t really mean to,and hurt begets hurt for sure

[A. Kim Spradling]

Some hide their hurt in anger.... Sounds like another poem in the making.... Hey Word, I like how you think!!!

[wordman]

it just comes natural

[The Iron Horseman]

This is both beautiful and moving, Belle. Your sentiments are heartfelt, and that comes across loud and clear. The message is strong and tremendously worthwhile. Forgiveness and understanding are both hard to achieve but absolutely essential in this unforgiving world!
Thank you for an interesting read, my friend.

[A. Kim Spradling]

Oh, Iron! This poem meant SO very much to me. Thank you for recognizing the heartfelt message that was sent. This actually has more Views than any other poem that I have written. The other was written with the same sentiments in mind. Thank you so much for reviewing me.

[The Iron Horseman]

Entirely my pleasure.