Golden Marriage with Tainted Infidelity

 The Golden Ring

 The sign of opportunity

 The sight of marriage

 

 Marriage is the commitment of love

 Sharing the vows that you and your partner have decreed to be  together

 It is the post of the status quo

 The status of a happy married couple

 

 But with such a big commitment

 There are challenges to face

 Which means not all married couples are happy

 Arguments and disagreements

 All tackled by honesty

 

 But the one challenge is so shocking and traumatic

 That it is like going through PTSD

 The most grueling, painful, agenizing challenge to face in a  marriage

 It the car that you have recently wrecked

 But you have to wait a long time for it to be fixed

 The challenge of dealing with infidelity

 

 Infidelity is the betrayal of your marriage

 Taking up your fantasy into reality

 But risking the boundaries of your marriage

 To live in the basis of your fantasy reality world

 

 Some say that it is sign of marriage coming to an end

 Others say it is the partner’s mistake of hurting spouse with that  choice

 

 It often ends with the end of marriage

 Or it ends with accountability of the choice

 

 But can a marriage survive it?

 How can it survive?

 

For a marriage to survive

The root of the problem must be solved

By asking these questions

How, when, and importantly why?

 

The affair is broken up into three parts

Secretive relationship

Emotional connection

Sexual Alchemy

 

How the affair happen is simple

It is planning of meeting the other person

To where and when

When it happens it turns into conversation

Then the talks become personal

Finally the sin of deceit grows from there

 

Why the affair happen is hard

But is compelling

The charge of the sin lies in the problem of main relationship itself

It usually feeling alienated or bored

Having something missing from what was lost

Like emotional connection, freedom, or intensity of sexuality

Being alive but knowing life is short

So it is spent by doing something that we know is foolish

Those are the reasons of violating the trust

 

When the affair is exposed

How dose the marriage heal from it?

The first step is honesty

Knowing of what it done is wrong

Then walking away from it and telling the partner about it

Second step is penitence and growing

The accused waits for the victim to heal

Final step is the rebirth of love

Honesty is acknowledged and all is forgiven

Love once again triumphs    

Author's Note

This to anyone who has ever felt guilty for hurting someone they love or someone who was already hurt before.

Reviews

[Jamestown]

Well written and delivered!
Thought provoking and many truths brought forward:)
Always enjoy reading your perspective my friend,
Thanks for sharing and b-blessed!