Abstract Notion

inspired when a thirty year old woman tried to seduce my son

 

Double Standards

Beyond escape

Like weeds afflicting

True beauty

 

Gender roles

What's appropriate?

What's innappropriate?

Is sex okay for underage boys?

 

While little girls

Search...

Pretend...

Because they must.

 

A mother watches...

Repulsed

By older woman

Seeking...

 

Her fourteen year old's

Flesh

 

Just for fun?

'Don't make him a Sissy

He's a boy

It's okay'

 

No, it isn't!

 

He's someone's son.

She's someone's daughter.

Both are equally loved.

Both to be treated equally.

 

My son experienced an

Attempted seduction

By a thirty year old

Woman...

 

It's not okay!

Never!

Although others cheer him on.

I guess the question becomes...

 

If an older man tried to seduce
A girl of fourteen...

Would that be acceptable?

I'm a stubborn mom.

 

Author's Note

I want to know want you think although it won't change my mind. I want my boy to grow up with the strength to walk away when the time isn't right.

Reviews

[Mark D. Chevalier]

I'd say that anyone, be it male or female, that seeks a relationship with a minor is in need of psychiatric assistance. What depth of emotion or suitable grounding in personality could be present with a disparity so great...none! Not to mention it's against the law.
Your son has his whole life ahead of him, certainly with no need to get attached to someone that obviously has deep-seeded self-esteem issues. You do him a great service to guard him from these kind of entanglements.

Very best,
Mark

[Antony]

You are not a stubborn mom, but very correct in all that you have said, it should be unacceptable with a boy as well as a girl, take it from someone who knows, don't ever change your thoughts on this and make it your business to be sure she stays away from him, he may find it infatuating and wonderful at the this, but he will lose a part of growing up, where learning and exploring his sexuality on his own, at the right time, is a joyful and special experience, a stepping stone into manhood. Put your foot down, mom...both of them and one up her a*s.
Tony

[Dani California]

I have two sons. Had this happened to either one of them at that age, I would have flipped out! Yes, it would have been ugly. Son, daughter, it's all the same. They're children. If you ask me that's attempted child molestation, not seduction. What is wrong with people?!!

This is not acceptable. Ever. I'm actually keeping my head pretty cool as I'm writing this, but inside I want to jump out of my skin.

You are right to bring it to your son in such a way that he'll understand and hopefully make wise choices in the future, as opposed to flipping out and locking him in his room. lol jk! Cool headed people make great parents. It sounds like you are cool headed, and wise my friend. I'm one of those emotionally reactive people, which is not always a good thing.

Awareness is power. Thank you for writing this A!

[These Haunted Hallways]

I think that this was brilliant, actually. Wonderful work. I, too, am with you on this. I thought ewwwww when a 30 yr old chik with a 14 year old boy... bleh...Yucky lol. Nice rant :)

B.A.