See this through my point of view

the title has a description in itself, it is based on what I have learned in life. There are three opinions yours, mine and the truth.

Every person out there has an opinion whether we choose to accept it or not, it's out in the open. What I can say is what I have learned in my not so successful relationship which is there is your opinion, mine and the truth. We would argue upon things that are moronically pointless. It's been three years and all that is happened in my life has spiraled without a way up. 

We would argue but never get any where. What he remembered was never what I remembered, we both thought we knew what the other person had said but it was never what was actually said. Either our minds twisted our words only to hear what we wanted to hear or we clearly just don't listen. We still had the same arguments about the same topics repeatedly.

One day he turned to me and said " There are three opinions: Mine, yours and the truth and none of us will never know the truth but your opinion will always be more important." This saying I learned from him and I knew he was right. We all have an opinion whether we are too ignorant to accept those opinions or we listen without a remark. He listened but remarked, I never listened this was our faults this is where you know your compatibility is questioned but you will always ignore that fact until something is done for you.

This comes back to my point you will always want someone else to see things from your point of view cause if they did maybe there would be  less misunderstandings and more acknowledging what is going through the other persons mind but that will never be possible. We are not psychic you know. I always think to myself why can't you see how you affect me. How your words break me down instead it is my fault for defensive words.

There is no solution, it has been this way for three years and I know there isn't a solution. It is who I am. It is who he is. It can't be changed. It's like an a*****e, everyone has one same as an opinion everyone has one but should they use it at what expense.



 

Reviews

[Inject Positivity]

Very true, if we see a matter from the other person's point of view then those misconceptions and tragic endings will never happen but that's how it goes, we can't change this rule, everyone thinks in their own way.... We think the way are seeing a matter is the best way and the opposite person thinks the same way... I like how you clarified the concept and message you were trying to convey through this write... Well done...

Regards
Dhiman

[Alexis Rose]

Keep writing, you have great ideas.