Discourage Self-harm drama artists on-line. Theirs is just a twisted way of attention-seeking. The really troubled people don’t put up up self-harms posts every 24 hours. The more you feed these monsters, the more they feed on you.
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Once when one bells the ring of his/her death willingly but doesn't die, all around him/her will arrange the spices and forces till he/she dies!😅
I do not like suicidal attempts or suicides. Life is precious even at the most disgraceful time. We are at fault for our vicious deeds not our organs or soul. Undoubtedly an amazing write.
Thanks Tahsin! This post is not for the seriously sick or disturbed people. They deserve all our att.. read moreThanks Tahsin! This post is not for the seriously sick or disturbed people. They deserve all our attention and care. But their cause is seriously diluted by some crooks who pretend depression & self-harm just for personal gain.
You’re so right! Life is precious! Not to be disrespected. Yet no point in telling the unscrupulous that. Their agenda is different.
Thank you for understanding me so completely, my dear friend. 🤗
4 Years Ago
We can barely hope that they will understand at this birth, sigh! You are welcome! =)🌿🍀
As a parent, are you, I find the last stanza so, so distasteful.
Folk do what they do for all manner of reasons, yes some is attention seeking but for others it is a way of coping, a mechanism to get through each day. For fear of whoring myself I'll ask you to read a piece I wrote a while back titled " Cutting or Counselling" which sort of tackles this " problem"
The pressures on young folk due to peer pressure, social media stereotyping, is something that I never had to endure hence will never understand, but it cannot be a fluke that so many youngsters take to " cutting"
Good morning Prestonjee, hope you are safe and well.
Posted 4 Years Ago
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4 Years Ago
Hello Gee,
Thank you for the time and attention to this post. Reading it, one would think I a.. read moreHello Gee,
Thank you for the time and attention to this post. Reading it, one would think I am a very distasteful human being, yes, yet sometimes I feel one just have to be cruel to be kind. This post is actually not meant for the real cutters or the really disturbed folks but exactly as you said, the unscruplous attention-seekers causing disturbance among those who read them, in the process diluting the cause of those who are really sick.
The person in question is not posting real cutting pics of self but is lifting pictures from the internet and methodically trying to create drama for years. This is what I am raging against.
And its not that I'm not speaking from experience. A sibling killed herself man. And she didn't post umpteen pictures filched from the internet with elaborately orchestrated posts before doing so. To some extent it gives me a sense of things. And at 28, I am a millennial too. You can also perhaps understand why this stirs me up quite a bit :)
I am thankful this post has stirred some thought-provoking debate. It will be a pleasure to read your post and leave my comments.
I'll also perhaps edit the poem a bit so its clearer what my intention was. Stay safe my friend. All the best to you and your family.
What you post may not be intended to actually invite folk to kill themselves but some only need the .. read moreWhat you post may not be intended to actually invite folk to kill themselves but some only need the smallest thing to tip them over the edge.
Had a 19 year old trainee try to take his own life this week !!
I deleted my prior first response comment of thanks 🙏
Honestly if you want an honest review I have to say I still disagree with the harsh self kill self harm yourself phrases. In your poem that very well could cause someone who is of unsound mind to put their head in oven or other ideas like slash wrists as you wrote in your write.
Unfortunately Not everyone on earth is in the same vibration or wavelength as you and may just not understand what you were trying to achieve and may not read the reviews and your forward and may just be in the wrong frequency headspace at the exact time that they read your poem
I’m trying to say this with respect but I think your poem is dangerous to those in society that self harm for whatever reason and for those in our society who are easily influenced or for anyone just reading it at the wrong time where they may well act on some of the ideas you put in poem
This is my opinion you could of done a poem talking about why they post so much for attention but that in itself is mental illness and not to be scoffed at anyway
I’m sorry but that’s my honest review I hope you do Nt take offence but I’m glass full sort of person there is no grey or white just black n. White
Thanks take care
Posted 4 Years Ago
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4 Years Ago
Thank you for your time and attention to this post, dear friend. I’ll take your suggestion next ti.. read moreThank you for your time and attention to this post, dear friend. I’ll take your suggestion next time 🤗❤️
The trouble with this is we don’t know who are real or fake and I kinda thought your words were rather dangerous to a reader who is self harming or considering suicide whether fake or real these thoughts and ideation are real to them and we are in no position to judge or speculate
I believe we should treat all suicide talk self harm slashing of wrists etc for real
Just my point of view
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4 Years Ago
I welcome your viewpoint. There are some who are methodically scouring the web for wrist-cutting pic.. read moreI welcome your viewpoint. There are some who are methodically scouring the web for wrist-cutting pictures and using them to create dramatic self-harm posts here which are being seen by young impressionable kids logging on. As per my observation, these writeups are being posted consistently by the persons in question over a prolonged period of time and seem quite deliberate in nature and hence attention-seeking. Anyway, I’m just trying to warn people about the very deleterious effects of such disturbing activities on the impressionable section of this site. It’s upto people to accept or reject my viewpoint. We must remember that sometimes morbidity can be contagious.
Kinda harsh words here, but I guess we'll all eventually die if this coronavirus bullshit keeps on going. But I agree people that aren't mentally ill shouldn't pretend to be.
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4 Years Ago
Thanks & Keep safe Mr. D.
Hope this s**t blows over and we can laugh about it over a beer or.. read moreThanks & Keep safe Mr. D.
Hope this s**t blows over and we can laugh about it over a beer or something :0
4 Years Ago
I don't do beer, but we can laugh about it for sure. :)
Hi there my friend, I was wondering about something then You made it clear with Your note, I agree totally to Your poem message here, still on the other side, these kind of people who really actually need help, whether they are faking their self-harm posts or not, in both situations it's a truth that they need help. Your poem is well written delivering the strong and angry tune with great sense. Stay positive and healthy too. sending Love❤️️
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4 Years Ago
Sorry about the rather harsh sounding words, my dear and gentle friend, I just loose my patience som.. read moreSorry about the rather harsh sounding words, my dear and gentle friend, I just loose my patience sometimes at the dark intentions of some. There are impressionable kids online here, some as young as 13 or 14 trying to learn poetry. I observed that certain of these self-harm posters are not even labeling their writing 'Mature' and leaving it open for anyone to click on them. Indeed, they may need help and I hope they get it from the right forums.
Thank you for lending your thoughtful & compassionate touch to this page. You always temper harshness with kindness.
never never worry my caring dear friend! I totally understand You! and You've pointed something very.. read morenever never worry my caring dear friend! I totally understand You! and You've pointed something very important and serious about the young ones here, they can be used by others, and they might be not wise enough to deal with these kind of situations and people! not to mentions that they can be sensitive too. You are VERY correct! Thank You very much my friend for sharing Your important thoughts 🌷
4 Years Ago
Thank you once again Light, for your very precious presence here.
Another self harm writer?? Sounds like a mind that has run out of ideas amongst other things. From my psychology perspective, unless this is a serious mental state of mind, it is often used as a weapon to seek attention and comfort from others; those with real diagnosable psychological disorders do not fake, they merely do, and in the majority of cases they keep it silent and don't declare it to the world. That is where you can determine between those who are genuinely in mental distress and those who are faking it. To fake something like this, is the lowest of the low. So, kudos for shining a light to expose such fakery and grandstanding. It should not be tolerated nor given any level of acceptance. Mental illness is a serious issue and one that requires immediate attention and not to be used to cover up one's lack of security and self esteem.
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4 Years Ago
What you said here was exactly my intention to state with this kind of broken, badly executed poem t.. read moreWhat you said here was exactly my intention to state with this kind of broken, badly executed poem today. I just came across another post of a habitual self-harm posting crook on this website. She’s such a fake, cold-bloodedly, methodically making elaborate posts on self-harm, complete with wrist-cutting pics googled on the net. She does it to grab the attention I believe. It stems from an extremely low self esteem coupled with criminal tendencies. What more, she does it defiantly, knowing her morbid posts are not appreciated here or anywhere else. She f**ktard doesnt even label them mature to limit audience to her crap. In the process, she’s being allowed to spread her wretched morbidity around.
Needless to say, I have extreme allergy to such pathogens and fakes and I’ll do anything to expose them. Even at the cost of being labelled a troll!
Thank you Madame. You’re always kind to this tuppence poet.