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(Sent March 14, 2018)

I'm in need of some advice. My friend recently found out she's pregnant and I helped her tell her boyfriend. They discussed options and everything and both decided that an abortion would be best for them. My issue with the situation is he wants no part of the process and is pretending like nothing is happening. He refuses to talk about it and even told me that I'm going to be the one helping her with everything. She is going in for her first ultrasound tomorrow morning and wants him to come, not me. He messages me and tells me I have to convince her otherwise to take me with and not him. I want to be respectful of his choice...but REALLY dude, this is YOUR pregnant girlfriend, the only thing she wants him there for is the initial ultrasound, everything else I'm going to be the one there for her. I'm really trying to not be negative and voice my opinions to her about his pretty s****y attitude, but there has to be a polite way of talking to both of them, right??