I wanted to share my views with y'all:
I had a miscarriage and a stillborn in the part year or so, and I am so sick of people using examples of people like me to tell others why they shouldn't get an abortion. My inability to have a successful pregnancy does not mean that another woman doesn't have the right to willingly terminate hers. A woman I know tried to directly use me to shame a woman who was going to have an abortion and I have never been so angry in my life. A woman who does not want to have a baby should NEVER be forced to carry to term. My loss does not change that fact. I am not a tool for anti-choicer to use to shame women, and my grief does not make abortion wrong. There is a difference when you don't want a baby, and don't consent a fetus to use your body for nine months. I can be a grieving mother and still believe in every woman's right to choose.