Me and no one else

My body is mine and I can do whatever the hell I want with it. My peers are always trying to put me down and they keep recomending these plastic surgions to "fix" me. I don't need or want to be fixed. They say that there is no way I will find love with the way I look. And you know what? I'm ok with that. I'm fine with the safety of knowing that if I find love, they will be after my personality. I don't care about the big curves. I like the way I look. I am sick of people always trying to fix what isn't broken. I'm not about to turn myself into plastic for the satisfaction of others. So they can just take their comments and shove it. I wish they had more sense when it comes to talking to a girl. But I suppose it's just immature teens who are always hungry for sex. If I find love, I want them to like my "ugly" self. (At least I'm not fake. I'm as close to real as they'll ever get)

Author's Note

Please pardon the grammer. This was just me venting after recieveing some hurtful words.

Reviews

[John the Baptist]

It sounds as though you have your priorities straight. After looking at celebrities who have had multiple plastic surgeries, I would think anyone would think twice about having a procedure done.

[Spamalot]

I agree with the sentiment, but because I don't know you, the situation, or anything meaningful, all I can say is that those are the words you should have responded with when those words you report were spoken.

Some thoughts:

• I've met women who I initially saw as plain, but who, after a few minutes of conversation, became truly beautiful. Anyone can use makeup to paint on beauty. But unless that beauty extends to your core, it's just paint.

• The problem with beautiful people is that people fawn over them, and try to be worthy of THEIR notice. So such people become self-centered, and never have learn to be a person worthy of attention. Hence the truism, "dumb blond," which in reality, refers to all such shallow people.

• As for finding love? Take a walk through the supermarket and see how many truly ugly people are there with their kids. Obviously, they found someone.

And if that plastic surgery being suggested was because of a lack of curves, laugh at the idea. If someone loves you for your cup size instead of who you are as a person, you want no parts of them, because here's the thing: Before you can truly love someone they MUST be your friend, not just a pretty acquaintance. Why? Because love is caring, not wanting.

[Shep]

you go, girl, no one should change who you are.

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Your body is your's you have the right to care for it but you have no right to harm yourself. Life is precious, learn to love it. :)

[Faust]

Thanks Aurora :)

[Chris Shaw]

You go girl. It is refreshing to come across a young person who has your strong views about the way they look. I say absolutely, stay as you are. You will be loved for your personality. Looks don't last anyway. I admire your confidence.

Chris

[Wild Rose]

Well said > I dont like the picture of you > You could look so much better / attractive / IF YOU WANT
I dont like girls in short skirts - tight jeans/tights - tight tee shirts > They look as if they are in a package to make themselves attractive ??
I dont like painted faces >

I like natural looks (Oh is that you behind the war paint) Your figure looks normal without the padded bra
Oh you have been out running; you are hot and sweaty . Go in and cool down before you get cold

[Faust]

Exactly! I know girls who have to wake up at 5 so that they can fiz themselves up for school with their faces caked in makeup.

[Wild Rose]

The price of ? Beauty ?
I prefer to see you as you are >> The real person