Sex... addiction

To everyone who thinks sex is a game or something they need

I’m done, I look around and all I see are stupid people… no offence. Try to go to school with people who all they care about is sex, partying and drugs… All I want is someone to love. You know how are that is to find when everyone around me is sexually active, and proud of it… I have nothing against sex, It’s a good thing… in any way. I’m not saying I’m against sex… Don’t Get Me Wrong.

 

It’s just… when you love someone love, isn’t a word for sex. When you truly care about someone… sex shouldn’t be the only way you show it… Sex is something you should only do with someone you truly care about. Not a w***e on the side of the road. People think that need sex to feel good about themselves… I myself wouldn’t exactly know, because I am trying to wait tell I meet someone special and of the right age, like it should be.

 

We don’t need 9-10 year olds pregnant… at that age and having a child could actually kill a young girl. They are not fit to have a child and definitely not take care of one. There was a video on you tube of a young girl who said her baby was a “I have a new toy to play with…”

 

No matter if your underage or above there is one thing that I think we should all know… outside of STDS and other things you can get… That sex is a bound between two people, like marriage. There is only one, or should be. You should never rush into anything… Sex is like candy you eat one piece and you want more… When you eat to much candy you become fat…. You hate you body. When you have to much sex with to many people, you will also hate you body.

 

Just like food sex can be addictive. When you eat all the candy there is nothing left. When you sleep around… you will end up alone. Get more candy… get more men/woman… you can kill yourself. Overweight… deities… clogged arteries‘… Sex… STDS

 

Even though this had been said many times… I wanted to say something to, I am a sixteen year old female in high school, I’m not ugly and I could date anyone and probably have sex with anyone if I wanted too… No I’m not dating anyone (I’m not really looking). I just am tired of people online and in real life thinking a relationship revolves around sex… it’s like saying that if someone will not sleep with you every night you will dump them… that isn’t love… it’s addiction, and you are not addicted to that or any person. You addicted to you’re the feeling you get, which will never be love.

Author's Note

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Reviews

[Eagle Cruagh]

Ashley, I just had to jump in here and sound
off, because you have written such a timely
article.
Someone mentioned typos or mistakes. The truth
is, your message comes accross loud and clear.

Some , if not all of the best writers in Cafe have
sounded off on your article. This in itself is amazing.
Your story is good and sound, it is as good today as
it was 100 years ago. Your message will not be lost.

You have attempted to prevent heartache and pain.
You have prevented untold unwanted pregnancies
with your writing and you have caused many of we
older people to stop and consider that your views
are as important to us as they are to kids.

Congratulation on a well written story, but most
importantly for a lesson that hopefully will prevent
much frivolous behavior and future grief.

----- Eagle Cruagh

[Marie Harrison]

Ashley, I'm so proud of you for writing this story. I don't know if it is true or false, but I hope it is true. There's a lot of wisdom in your story. At sixteen, many other things besides sex should be spinning around, like where the future is going to be taking you in the future. There's so much time as an adult to be consumed with sex, why rush what is coming anyway? It's a terrific story!

[Rain Kissed Secret]

I'm not saying I disagree with you, because you're right relationships do not revolve around sex. But sex is a huge part of what makes a man and a woman. I agree that you should wait, at least so you're not a child yourself and have children. But you don't want to be so old that you are in you're 40's or 50's and have a new bundle of joy. I think what I'm trying to say is that worrying about this, stressing about this, its not worth it. It's not worth writing down, or even acknowledging. People will do what they want, and when they want, and the only thing we can do is try and find the individual and gently nudge them in the right direction. I say, if it's not killing them, or making them sick to a point where they have no control of their mind or body, then don't worry about it. If they are choosing to be idiots just because they think it'll get them to keep someone, that's their problem.

[the pup]

yes I fully agree about most of that everyone loves that thing they do but no one rally care about feeling just a rush of intimacy life's long but everyone can be good looking but at least in your state of mind everyone should be careful as the thorns may rip into you and thats that, its not nice to see everywhere i go pregos walking around bc not everyone is happy just looking for a way to amuse their selves, before i get to much in this subject i bid you a good night and to love is great then never loved at all when you can tell between what is wrong and wright you can see threw to eternal night.

[Liza]

you are definitely on to something and you're getting closer to clarity. we are brainwashed to believe that sex is love or love is sex....it is an addiction to excitement through lust and we disguise the passion of lust .

[Dinesh Sairam]

Hmm.. doesn't happen much in the place where I live at. But I can imagine the ugliness in such a situation. Well put.

[Coyote Poetry]

Old saying. Use up all the good gifts. What will be left to give away? Sex had purpose. It is when two people give all for the sake of love and great great memories. No better emotion. Free gifts without thought leave us wishing for more wisdom. The body is a temple. We need to take care of it . You are right. A lot of bad things out there.
Coyote

[Lucy Joan]

I agree, this is true for many people; nicely written.

[Levioshock]

This is so true

[Arctic Fox]

very true words my dear, very true indeed

[Legion]

Nicely said. I couldn't agree more, unfortunately we are spoon fed this saccharin version of love on a daily basis through different means. If love could reclaim its definition back from lust, this world would be a wonderful place. Kudos to you.